Yes, I have previously cut my own hair. It was more out of curiosity and a need for a change than it was to save money. In a way, the experience was both enlightening and empowering. 
Even though it wasn't salon-quality, it felt good to have completed it by hand. I never imagined that I would be the kind to trim my own hair. I was always told as a child that getting a haircut should only be done by pros. I was accustomed to going to the hair salon on a bimonthly basis; I could smell the hair products, hear the clippers buzz, and see the skilled hands cutting with the scissors. However, it's strange how life challenges our assumptions, doesn't it?
Everything began with a very unpleasant salon encounter. The allure of cutting-edge looks and excellent recommendations had persuaded me to explore a new salon. I had no idea that this visit would set off a series of events that would drastically alter my life. Despite her good intentions, the hairdresser didn't seem to understand the importance of being delicate. My delicate scalp seemed as though every tug and brushstroke were torturous. I felt more agitated than rejuvenated by the time I left, and my head was pounding. I was nursing my sore skull that night when a rebellious thought occurred to me: "What if I just... cut it myself?" The concept was exciting and horrifying at the same time. I dismissed it, blaming it on the effects of the salon trauma.But the seed had been planted.
The idea developed over the ensuing weeks. I started to watch YouTube videos on DIY haircuts and was amazed by the self-assurance of the women who DIYed their hairstyles. Saving money wasn't the goal; I was prepared to pay for a quality cut. It was all about maintaining control and giving my scalp and hair the careful care they deserved. At last, on a Sunday afternoon, I made the decision. I stood in front of my bathroom mirror, equipped with a pair of sharp scissors, a spray bottle, and more nervous energy than I knew what to do with. With a look of both joy and fear in her eyes, my reflection peered back. I said to myself, "You've got this," and started cutting.
The feeling was beyond words. It felt like releasing oneself from intangible bonds after that first cut. With every deliberate slash, my sense of power increased. Yes, there were definitely some uneven areas and "Oh no, what have I done?" moments in my technique, which was far from flawless. All in all, though, it wasn't too awful for a first try. Above all, there was no pain involved. No pulling, no hard brushing, and no hair dryer on high speed that burns your scalp. It's just me, my scissors, and my own bathroom to ourselves. I took my time, stopping when I needed a break and listening to my favorite playlist. Dare I say it, it was fun.
I was ecstatic when I set down the scissors and took a close look at the outcome. Was the cut of a professional caliber? Not at all. However, I owned it. Every uneven layer and slightly misaligned boom demonstrated my newly discovered bravery and independence.
Would I do it again? Absolutely, if I feel the urge. There's a certain freedom in knowing I can take control of my own style when I want to. However, for now, I'm enjoying having my hair professionally done. I appreciate the skill and expertise that goes into a professional cut and style.
I think it's great to have options. Sometimes it's fun to experiment on your own, and other times it's nice to sit back and let a professional work their magic. For now, I'm in a phase where I prefer getting my hair done, but I wouldn't rule out cutting it myself again in the future if the mood strikes.
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