Love and security—these are two things that are always seen as the core of any relationship. And one can say they are inseparable. To choose between financial security and endless love is going to be hard. Here I will look at the two as an entity and also as two separate bodies.
In a relationship, we all know what is needed: love, patience, finance, kindness, and sacrifice. All the aforementioned variables in a relationship are important, and they make a relationship work. But can a relationship work without any of them? A relationship without these variables might not stand the test of time. Love and financial security are very important variables of a relationship, and they are needed for it to work. In a relationship, there is need for endless love. Without love, no relationship can work. There are times one might feel like giving up, but let the love you share lead.
Love is deep and goes beyond physical attraction. Your partner will not always look the way he or she is. There will be a time when beauty will depreciate, and if love isn't there, one might begin to hate his or her. Love goes beyond physical appearance; it is a connection of two souls. One cannot have a happy relationship without it.
Financial security is important in a relationship. Money makes a relationship work and blissful. There are couples who love themselves, but because of a lack of finances, it seems they are struggling in the relationship. Sometimes a partner is regarded as being romantic when he or she can provide material things, or should I see gifts?
Financial security is important, as it makes a relationship a safe haven. Imagine being in need of something and you can't get it because of a lack of finances. It is frustrating and can cause a whole lot of problems. No one wants to be in a relationship where they do not provide for their basic human wants. A relationship where there is no financial security, no matter the weight and depth of their love, will lack some spark. Sometimes a sense of dislike or even hate might arise because of this.
For me, I believe financial security and love go hand in hand in a relationship. Where one is lacking, the relationship will be rocky in nature. So what do we do if one is lacking in our relationship? Well, I believe love can cover up for lack of finances in a relationship, but it won't make the relationship enjoyable. But where there is money and no love, it is just a matter of time the ship will sink.
Let us not pay attention solely to love or money in a relationship. Let us know that they are both very important. Love is not transactional in nature. But most of the time we make it transactional. We look at love through the eyes of gifts, vacations, and designer gift items rather than love, which is the glue to any relationship. When there is no more financial security, what next?