Falling in love, it's too easy ...

A couple's love is built.

I got married very young, and we have been married for 47 years, we have separated 2 times, and we got back together making new agreements, I do not regret it, because today I feel more understood than ever, we have changed over time, it needs to be understood that we are no longer the same young people we were when we met, we emigrated twice and it was not easy, we are still choosing each other day by day, and I tell you that it is still not easy for us.

Many people believe that life and over-marriage is a Korean NETFLIX movie and relationships are ended because it gave them the crisis and bad character. Falling in love, love and the relationship of couples are very different things, of course it is wonderful if love and relationship go hand in hand, because the couple relationship is built and cultivated over time.

However, I think that it is not necessary to romanticize couple relationships, the relationships of long-lasting couples like the.mia for example, they are difficult, you have to make some sacrifices for the loved one, give up some things, but always taking care of self-love and dignity.

Everything with balance, understanding that when you lose a battle you are still there but only for love (but real love, not infatuation), understanding the limits and that your partner is not going to change, but if you decide to change yourself and stay al side of your partner and of course, also understanding how far you are going to endure and make the decision of when we give up and NOT a decision that is impulsive overnight, but a decision that respects the individualities, the pros and cons of the relationship over time.

Keeping that flame alive is fundamental for relationships over time.

It is not surprising that with an empty existential those people who see something negative in a stable partner, happy, which together laugh , are complicit, confidence , good sense of humor , I think they are jealous that focus more on the lives of others than of themselves🙃

My husband and I do not pretend to have a perfect love, nor that we are made to measure, it is impossible to fit into everything; because we know very well that love must be built every day and among countless storms; because to truly love is a continuous choice that is born from the soul, it is to have walked, to have fallen, to have triumphed together and to continue.

And enjoy the complicity and humor because it's not at odds with other elements serious in the relationship, on the contrary complement. I think that it is quite tiring to see so many people glass around me😂.

Embrace and applaud standing, those who fight for true love and not the love 🥰 because falling in love, it is all too easy.

Let's talk about relationships, of how to get out of the routine and have fun together . Do you apply it with your partner?

Janitze.🌹