I came across this very beautiful lines, "Nothing can be gained without losing, even Heaven demands death." I believe it's so true. Some time all we have to do is try, if we never try we will never elevate ourselves. We get stuck up in our own fears and make judgements or are afraid of other people's judgement. In my life I have always observed that whenever I have had a big goal, there have been some people who have tried to discourage me, with words like, I will never be able to do it, or that it's not possible for me to do it. And when I accomplish my goal, I do not even bother to let them know, though they do get to know and then they go completely quiet.
Yes, there have been times when I have been influenced by other people judgement, it has been momentarily and I have moved on fast from that, but the risk is one can get stuck in it and then stop trying all together. If we want to achieve big in life, there will be quite a few things that we may have to lose on the way. We may have to let go off certain people, or sometimes we have to let go off our own ego, and most importantly we will have to let go off our comfort. Because if we want to gain big things in life there will be a need to step out of the comfort zone.
The real loss in life is when we never take that step with all these fears and contemplations in mind. A lot of people give up on their big dreams, with just a thought that their present environment is not supporting them. I hear people saying wish I was a millionaire or a billionaire, wish I had a big home, wish I had this fat paying job, and then they shy away saying, get back to reality. When you dream of something, why not try to make that dream a reality. There is a possibility you may fail, but giving up without trying, thinking that it is beyond your capacity is a total failure in life.
You may have to make sacrifices to achieve your goal, and you must be prepared for it. If you are not willing to step out of the comfort zone then it's best not to dream big, because that can also create frustration in life. If you want to achieve big success in your job, you may have to work more compared to your peers, because you have a goal. Which means you will have to give some of your personal time also to your job. You cannot say, that I will work in my comfort zone and yet I desire to become a CEO of the Company. If you want to make a marriage successful, you will have to work towards it, there will be times when you will have to compromise and let go off your ego to keep the relationship safe.
Life is a beautiful experience, years pass by quickly and one must continuously keep moving. If you sit doing nothing, and just your regular day to day life, doing the same things for years and years, then you will be in the same place forever.
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