Thanks for sharing your perspective.
Simplicity is Key.
For me here - the reflection was kind of deeper into my past history...and didn't really go into it so well.....but it's like I've always been on the look out for another sucker even when with a good sucker...so for me it's a point of creating the balance.
RE: Fantasy and Projection...What this Means Physiologically and Psychologically in a World of Pornography and Masturbation