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For a long time I have heard that no person was born with the right knowledge to know how to be good parents and at the same time, among the fears that most invade people who consider themselves to be is: making a mistake at some point.
When people finally become new parents and the baby is apparently unwell, it is normal that they want to take him to the doctor frequently and at the same time, they look for the most suitable way to understand the different types of cries that their little ones have.
Personally, I have seen those new parents consult their parents, in-laws or friends who already have experience in this role and do it because, they want their children to fall asleep correctly, they can eat without any problem or failing that, do not get sick.
Now, since I always like to ask why they have a behavior that catches my attention, this has not been the exception and all those who have consulted them agree that they do it because they want to be the best parents in the world and although they will surely be wrong in several things, in the same way they want to learn from these mistakes since, there is no manual to be parents but it is the best profession they can practice.
To be excellent parents, you have to learn daily
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Researching in more depth regarding this topic I learned that, there is a statistic that confirms the participation of men in the role of being parents and it turns out that, until a decade and a half ago, 41% of the male sex did not usually get involved much with the upbringing of their children, however, currently this is different because, 79% of men are linked to the activities of their children and this can be confirmed by seeing that take them to school, park, read books with them and much more.
Surely on more than one occasion they have wondered what caused this change in men and, I confess that I also asked myself that question, however, the answer is simpler than we can believe since, this change in psychological behavior is related to the fact that currently men before becoming fathers are reading self-help books that can guide them to be good parents.
In the same way there is a kind of psychological shock since, it is influencing the feeling of wanting to be the father that they did not have or failing that, the one that they were with them and whatever the circumstance, we must celebrate that this change has occurred because with it, we guarantee that the children grow up with the father figure in good esteem.
The bond between parents and children begins when the baby is being gestated in the womb
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This change of parents makes it clear that, when they are properly informed about all the needs that their children may have, they allow them to have a healthy psychological well-being and be very happy.
The decision to become parents is transcendental, in fact, I consider it the most important because with the arrival of a child, life has a turn higher than 360 ° and nothing will be the same for it, when making the decision to have children it is essential to start with emotional preparation, maintain optimism and do activities to release irritability.
In the same way, you can not be selfish and the ideal thing is to constantly apply understanding because children are starting their life process, something that the adult already understands very well. It may seem impossible or somewhat complicated to fulfill, however, if there is serenity and documentation regarding how you can become a good father or good mother, of course it is possible to successfully exercise this role.
In my case, I still do not have children and although I still do not plan to have them, I love to read and look for all kinds of data related to this topic because when that time comes to become a mother, although I know that the practice will be very far from reality, at least I want to have an idea of what that role is like, I ask those who already are for that reason, I can recommend that you apply this tips because it works even to relate to the children of people close to our environment.
Analyzing what we like and annoy about our parents, allows us to evaluate what we want to be for our children
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Undoubtedly, the school of life will always be the best scenario to learn to be good parents and according to what my dad says, although the children are already adults, they continue to learn because although we are already independent, parents continue to learn to exercise this role since, then it corresponds to them to be parents of adults and the most special thing of all is that, all the experiences that are lived are unforgettable and are remembered with a lot of love.
Finally, if at a certain moment we feel prepared to be parents or, those who already have the fortune to be so do not know something specific to this role, it is essential that we are not afraid to investigate about it and the most important thing of all is, keep the possibility of learning open at all times because although books and those who have experience guide us, the road is long and there will always be something new to learn.