A big shout out to everyone here! Trust y'all are doing well? It's weekend and you should enjoy and make the most out of it cos as for me, I'll so enjoy every bit of it.
So, @galenkp promised to make this week's topic an easy one. He has kept his promise as this week's topic is something everyone should pen down cos it has to do with our habits be it positive or negative.
On that note, I'll be answering Option three (3) which says;
WHAT QUIRKY, UNUSUAL, ODD OR STRANGE HABIT HAVE YOU NOTICED OR OBSERVED IN SOMEONE ELSE THAT YOU ENJOY AND RESPOND TO - OR DETEST AS IT GETS ON YOUR NERVES - EXPLAIN WHY IN EITHER CASE (OR DO BOTH). LOUD EATING IS ONE I HATE. SEND ME BONKERS! 😕
Habit according to the dictionary is referred to as an action done on regular basis; it is an action that is performed repeatedly and automatically, usually without awareness.
Habit is that one thing we cannot resist or stop doing not for a second. We all know ourselves so therefore try to abstain from any bad habit that's if you have it.
Now back to the question:
Actually, there's this girlfriend I have, the one and only person that knows virtually everything about me in and out. Like there's absolutely nothing we keep or hide from each other, absolutely nothing at all. We do everything together though we both have our flaws and sometimes we get on each other's freaking nerves but somehow, anyhow, we fix and patch up things and look at the brighter side.
Now since day one we met and got to know ourselves, there's this habit I detest so much and hate with so much passion that sometimes make me mad about her which is being unecessarily lazy when it comes to things she should be serious about especially as a lady.
On many occasions and many countless times, when she has an appointment, an occasion or anywhere to go, she will not prepare ahead of time, arrange and keep things in place before then, it's when she's extremely late that you'll see her rushing so as to meet up time and at the end of the day, she will end up scattering the whole house, looking for shoes, clothes, underwear etc.
If I have an appointment, a church program, a date, anywhere to go or something, I carefully plan myself on what to wear and when to start preparing so I don't rush and end up making the whole house a mess, scattered, tattered and unkept. I don't know if you get what I'm saying or you actually do understand me.
I mean, doing things appropriately, accordingly and in order is one thing I like and would love you for even if there are other things to hate about you. Doing it the other way round is a turn off for me.
Who stays in a house or a room for days without sweeping it? I mean, who does that??? How can you even be comfortable with that? She does that all the time saying I swept the house few days ago and I haven't wore my shoes and slippers inside the house since then.... Omo e dey pain me o, for lady whr you be? Haba nau, you go lose suitors, good, sweet, handsome potential guys, I keep telling her that but she won't hear.
You know, most times I don't blame her because she's just unecessarily lazy, very very lazy. Whenever I visit her and stay for days and I see this, it gets me irritated, mad and so pissed honestly.
To even add to that, she stays for a whole month without washing her clothes, she will wear every single outfit of hers and drop them at one corner saying "Let it be there I'll wash later" now this her "later" will result to a month or so and when she's out of what to wear, she'll start washing three clothes in a day.
When I met her newly, I visited her and one day I noticed that her kitchen and where she keeps her food stuffs is very dirty, unkept and untidy. She had the guts, the temerity, and the impetus to stand right there and shave her armpits....eeeuueee, so so disgusting. I shouted at her immediately and she said sorry I didn't notice.
The good thing is that I'm trying to help her curb out such habits and she's responding gradually though. That didn't stop me from being with her, we all have our imperfections and trying to run away from people cos of that isn't the right thing to do.
She's not here on hive and she has bluntly refused to join. If she were to be here, I wouldn't write this about her cos I don't want her getting angry at me. I love her too much and no matter what happens, I'll keep doing so.
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