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Blogging Challenge - Part 02 - Day 05
And it's very true, everyone has their own point of view and opinion. The person who tells the story has the power to tell the part that he or she considers necessary, and to leave out the parts that he or she doesn't want to tell... often for his or her own benefit.
That is why i always try to wait to hear the other side of the coin, so that i can draw conclusions. I know many people who tell stories in such a way that they themselves look good and the other looks bad... They ignore the words they say, the attitudes they take and what they do.
For example: They come and tell me ¨Fulanito blocked me and told me that he hated me, that malo¨ and i tell her: ¨And why did he block you? Could it be that he was offended by something?¨ and then the details start to come out little by little ¨noo, i only told him that he could not go to a party because many people were going weird¨ and i came in: ¨And don't you think that he is old enough to decide where he goes?¨ and so on until i make her understand that possibly it was a problem that has been cooking for a long time and now for certain reasons and circumstances he took that decision... but one thing i can be clear about everything happens for a reason you just have to look for the reason and try to understand your neighbour.
It's always good to put yourself in other people's shoes and ask yourself why did so-and-so do that? Did i offend him? Do you need anything? Before judging the attitude or action he took.
That's also why i don't believe much in history, nor in religions... after all, there's no way to confirm that something is 100% true if you weren't there yourself, so anything that's written by someone else is an opinion that isn't necessarily written with all the details that really happened, it's written from a person's point of view, which God knows if it was altered by others.
And for you, what was the best advice you were given? That's all for now. Thank you very much for joining me in this little corner of tripode, i hope you have a wonderful day, i hope to see you again soon... and remember, good vibes always.
Blogging Challenge - Part 02 - Day 05
Y es muy cierto, cada quien tiene su propio punto de vista y opinión, el que cuenta la historia tiene el poder de contar la parte que considere necesaria, y obviar las partes que no quiera contar... en muchas ocasiones en beneficio propio.
Por eso yo siempre trato de esperar escuchar la otra parte, ver la otra cara de la moneda y sacar mis conclusiones. Conozco mucha gente que cuenta las historias de forma tal, que ellos mismos quedan bien y el otro queda mal... Obvian las palabras que ellos dicen, las actitudes que toman y lo que hacen.
Por ejemplo: Vienen y me dicen ¨Fulanito me bloqueó y me dijo que me odiaba, que malo¨ y yo le digo: ¨¿Y por qué te bloqueó? ¿Será que se ofendió por algo?¨ y ahí comienzan a salir los detalles poco a poco ¨noo, yo solo le dije que no podía ir a una fiesta porque iba mucha gente rara¨ y entro yo: ¨¿Y tu no crees que él es grandecito ya para decidir a donde va?¨ y así sucesivamente hasta que le hago entender de que posiblemente fué un problema que se viene cocinando hace mucho tiempo y ahora por ciertas razones y circunstancias tomó esa decisión... pero de algo si puedo estar clara todo pasa por una razón solo hay que buscar bien el porque de las cosas y tratar entender al prójimo.
Siempre es bueno ponerse en los zapatos de los demás y preguntarse ¿Por qué fulano hizo eso? ¿Lo habré ofendido? ¿Necesita algo? Antes de juzgar la actitud o la acción que tomó.
Por eso también, no creo mucho en historia, ni en religiones... al fin y al cabo no hay forma de confirmar que algo es 100% cierto si tu mismo no estuviste allí, por lo tanto todo lo que esté escrito por otra persona es una opinión que no necesariamente esté escrita con todos los detalles que pasaron realmente, está escrito desde el punto de vista de una persona, que sabrá Dios si fué alterada por otras.
Y para tí, ¿Cuál ha sido el mejor consejo que te han dado?. Eso es todo por ahora. Muchas gracias por acompañarme en este pequeño rincón de tripode, espero que pases un maravilloso día, ojalá te vuelva a ver pronto... y recuerda, buenas vibras siempre.
This is my entry for the 30 Days Blogging Challenge - PART 02, created by @macchiata. If you want to participate just enter our Discord server SMILE. And start writing with the #bloggingchallenge, I'll leave you the introductory post so you can get to know the community.
Esta es mi entrada para el 30 Days Blogging Challenge - PART 02, creado por @macchiata. Si quieres participar solo entra a nuestro servidor de Discord SMILE. Y comienza a escribir con el #bloggingchallenge, te dejo el post introductorio para que conozcas la comunidad.
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Day 02: Best investment
Day 03: Worst advice
Day 04: Good people
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And following the initiative of @wesphilbin from #thoughtfuldailypost providing content that tries to be reflective, positive and shares the love of true commitment and healing.
