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It is true that we men often fail in our relationships with women because we allow ourselves to be guided too much by appearances and do not sufficiently investigate their essence.
We are attracted to their physical beauty but we know little about their true thoughts and characters, which allows them to deceive and manipulate us more easily.
They, on the other hand, are very good at detecting what arouses our interest, even if they do not always show their true personality.
They are skilled at using disguises and alternating between different facets that make them difficult to understand.
They also have greater intuition and mental agility to read between the lines, which gives them an advantage when interacting with us.
We need to be aware of this asymmetry if we want to relate to each other in a more balanced way.
It is necessary to go beyond the physical and delve into the spiritual, emotional and psychological to really get to know the person in front of us.
This is the only way to build honest and lasting relationships.