As a woman most of the time we have found that we have to chase for validation in order to survive. We seek validation from family, partner, friends and office. And yet we are not given the respect that we are supposed to get. And that leads to the frustration most of the time.
In order to be happy and balanced we have to learn not to seek the validation and instead focus on having our place understood instead.
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Validation appears like elixir through which our mind feels like it has reached the heaven. In reality it is more or less a poison that always wants the attention. And we kind of depend on the validation for every action that we take in our life. So it's always important to focus on the doing the things instead of validating every actions that we take.
When we avoid seeking the validation of the people. We end up focusing on our own actions. And we learn to take responsibility of our own life. You learn to live on your own and focus on what can be done in general in the life. And you try to avoid the issues of the life. You stop taking part in the drama that goes around you. And this means you seek less attention from the people around.
You may feel like that is breaking off the social connection. But in reality that is not true and instead you would realize that you are getting off a lot of issues of your head. It would be making things easier for you to focus. You would take less parts in things that does not concern you.
Life continues to move ahead. You not choosing and seeking the validation ends up building better of your character and personality in turn. You would do lot better with the life at the end when less focus is on attention and validation from the world.
How do you think of not seeking validation and attention? Does it work for you?
