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Hi everyone... We meet again in "Stop pleasing everyone" Episode 2.
I will make an analogy with a story, where one day a girl ran into her house crying. He complained about his crying to his mother.
"Is that true, Fulan hit you on purpose?" his mother asked.
"That's right, even though I didn't do anything wrong to him," the girl answered, lying.
The mother, feeling burned by her child's complaint, rushed to siFulan's house. There his emotions exploded.
"You son of a thug! His morals are bad," said the mother, addressing Fulan.
Fulan, who didn't know anything, felt confused by the accusations leveled at him. He was born from a poor family. His father was a thug, and his mother was the canteen guard at his school. However, Fulan grew up to be an obedient girl who didn't do much. So it would be very absurd if he was accused of hitting his friend.
What happened to Fulan apparently was also experienced by many other people in different cases. Why is that? Because our society has a tendency to easily judge someone just by looking at their family's mistakes.
"No wonder money in this class often goes missing, there are thieves."
"Broken home children are usually naughty."
Even if the father is a cheater, the child will definitely not be able to maintain a relationship."
It seems completely unfair that the mistakes of one family member must be labeled on all other members. Why do we have to bear the mistakes made by those closest to us, even though everyone has their own personality, right?
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"Everyone should have the awareness that we are only human beings who have no control over when, where, and whose parents we are born."
When we are born into this world, no matter how bad our family is, it is impossible to exchange it for another fate. Including if the destiny written by God requires us to be in a family that is considered negative by the environment.
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