Greetings to you dear Ladies,
I'm really happy to join in this week's contest #95 with a very interesting question of whichi am about to answer.
The world is full of different people with different lifestyle and anger level. Yes anger are in level because some of us are easily angered while are not they are cool guys. So my answer to this question of what makes me angry and how long do I stay mad.
I am a very jovial type of person, I love smiling all the time because I'm dangerous with anger. Although I'm been trying how to control it and I have been asking God to help me deal with it. Things that annoy me are very simple and if one can stay without those things we will be good friends.
One of it is I don't like public embarrassment, if I offend you and you're someone close to me I expect you to talk to me in private rather than shouting at me in public I will become angry at that point I will be boiling inside so in order for be to become calm I will have to express it by either telling you my mind or through my actions most times I do walk away from that environment to a quiet place but I will still be angry so the only way to calm down fully is to listen to music particularly blues sang by "CELIN DION" .
Another thing that stir up angry in me is when I'm telling the truth about something and you are still telling me I'm lieingor a situation where someone accused me falsely it really annoy me, sometime I will have to rethink if truly I did this thing but the truth is I'm not guilty but people will find it difficult to believe and the wost of my anger will be when the truth is finally discovered and truly I was not guilty I will become so mad that heavens knows because I see that kind of thing as an way of tarnishing my image telling people thing am not guilty of tears me apart. To control my anger at this point is to bath cold water listen to music and sleep when I wake up I will be fine or if at that point I see someone I love and respect calling me order I will become calm.
Another thing that makes me angry is when I relate with someone and because of the familiarity the person will now use the opportunity to speak to me in an insultive manmer this one get me angry too much especially if the person is younger than me, I had one friend in my school she was very young but bright and we became friends but she uses that as opportunity to use an insultive words on me so the esay thing I did is to detach myself from her and that the end of that friendship.
To control my temper will express it immediately, and if after that I'm still boiling I will listen to my favorite music blues and my mind will suddenly become calm this is the only way I can help myself and sometimes after I have expressed myself I don't talk if not I will cry so all I will do is to listen to music and stay alone.
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