Hello, beautiful ladies of @LadiesOfHive 🌼. I heartily wish you all are feeling wonderful and that your life is full of blessings ✨🙏🏻. Today, I come back to visit you to join the LOH Community Contest #139, where @irenenavarroart invites us to see our life as a general balance, which I saw very interesting 🤭 and to tell you a little of our dreams fulfilled or to be fulfilled 😍.
I feel frustrated because I skipped last week's contest, the LOH Community Contest #138, since my little girl had her birthday and I spent the week on it 🎈🥳, between one thing and another I missed the contest but here I am again 🤩. Now to what I came 😅.
Pensemos en nuestra vida como una empresa que involucra lo biológico, lo psicológico y lo social, debemos tratar de mantener el capital y el patrimonio, pero también debemos administrar recursos, planificar objetivos, expandir nuestro alcance e invertir en nosotros mismos, parece un trabajo dificil verdad? Sin embargo, no es necesario ser un experto en administración para ganarse la vida, porque todos aprendemos a medida que ganamos experiencia.
Para este concurso te propongo un ejercicio, hablemos de porcentajes, escribe que porcentaje de prioridad tienen los diferentes aspectos de tu vida, además compáralos con el porcentaje de tiempo que inviertes en cada uno de esos aspectos y clasifica las actividades diarias que corresponden a cada uno.
1️⃣ Take stock of your life and share it with us.
Let's think of our life as a business that involves the biological, the psychological and the social, we must try to maintain capital and wealth, but we must also manage resources, plan objectives, expand our reach and invest in ourselves, it seems a difficult job right? However, it is not necessary to be an expert in management to make a living, because we all learn as we gain experience.
For this contest I propose you an exercise, let's talk about percentages, write what percentage of priority have the different aspects of your life, also compare them with the percentage of time you invest in each of those aspects and classify the daily activities that correspond to each one.
Well, I think I have a bit of trouble here 😅, I don't know where to start or rather in how many aspects to divide my life, but we'll see 😅.
I personally believe that no aspect of our life occupies 100% of us and that is something that is right, since we should not occupy ourselves with only one thing in our life. However, sometimes we distribute in a very wrong way the time we spend on each thing.
In my case, I divided the aspects of my life as follows:
✔️ Being a Mom. When we are mothers we try to give almost 100% to our children, since our life practically starts to revolve around them, but it is not something we do either because of our daily occupations and jobs. For me, being a mom takes up 30% of my time, I try to take care of my daughter as much as possible.
✔️ Partner. To my partner I must confess that between so many things and my daughter I don't give her the attention or the time she needs. I think the time I spend on this is about 10%, which I think is too little since we must also show love and attention to them 🥺❤️.
✔️ Employment. Unfortunately, my job is what I give the most time to, since I spend approximately 8 continuous hours here, 5 days a week. Therefore, in terms of my time here is where I spend most of my days 🥺💔 thus occupying 35% of my time.
✔️ Home. I am a person who likes to keep my house clean and give a harmonious appearance to my home, I always try to make it a clean and comfortable place for my family and that we can be happy in it. I give approximately 15% of my time to it, because between cleaning, arranging things, washing clothes, bathing, cooking and cooking I take up more time than I should.
✔️ Self-love 😅. For myself 😅, I have time to spare. Which at times I feel is a lot of time I waste on myself, time that I can spend with my daughter, it is because of them that this only takes up 10% of me. Clearly, daily I groom myself, do my hair and make up for my work, but to dedicate myself to grooming as I would like or relax I can't, it would be too much 🙈.
Analyzing all this, I consider that I must find a way to better distribute my obligations and duties to spend more time with the people I love and with myself, since in the end they are the most important thing in my life. In a job you are replaceable, the home can be fixed at any time, but for your family and yourself there is only you and you are not someone I could replace. I think that's what I should focus on the most and enjoy being around them.
2️⃣ Life is full of unfulfilled dreams but also of accomplishments we never dreamed of. Tell us about a dream come true that you never thought you would in your life.
When I talk about dreams and achievements, a lot of things come to mind, from being an independent person to traveling around the world. While there are dreams that come easily, there are others that unfortunately do not or simply slip through our fingers.
I remember well that since I was a child I dreamed of getting married dressed in white and all that stuff, but as I grew up the concept of marriage for me lost much value in view of so many things I saw around me, which is why today is a dream that I left in the past. Just as I dreamed that when I could finally work I would have a big house, with a pool, park and so on 😅 and I could give cars to my parents and most of my family, a dream not impossible but very, very difficult to fulfill.
Today my dreams are a little more realistic, I think 😅. One of my dreams was recently fulfilled thanks to God 🙏🏻, which was to be able to have my own space, a place where my partner, my daughter and I could be alone and quiet ☺️y although it is not a place of our own, it is our place. We managed to rent a little house just for the three of us with the necessary comforts ❤️ , for a long time I stopped dreaming of a super big house, if I could it would be just an apartment where we would be comfortable 🤭, but we have much more, a house ❤️.
I am also realizing my dream of being independent, I have my job, my place and I don't depend on anyone else, of course my partner helps me a lot, but I can still afford to pay for my things.
Something I didn't dream of but it came to me was the fact of being a mom, it was something that although I always thought was not in my plans when it happened, but still God gave me the joy of being a mom and it is the most wonderful thing that could have ever happened to me 🥺😍.
I must admit that there are many things still pending to accomplish, but I confess that most of them are impossible with this unstable economy in which we Venezuelans live. But I'm still there, fighting for what I want and living in the best way those achievements and dreams that I can fulfill, even if they are few 🌼.
Nos vemos en una próxima publicación y gracias a toda la que me lee. Les envío un fuerte abrazo 🤗🌼.
See you in a future post and thank you to everyone who reads me. I send you a big hug 🤗🌼.
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|| All text was written by myself @chelle0891 || Translated to English using DeepL translator ||
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