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I firmly believe everyone has a soulmate. If not, why do people we consider "ugly" find their perfect match, often someone more attractive? It's because we were never meant to be alone, and there's someone, somewhere for every individual, regardless of the appearance. It's either they are far away or closer than we think.
During my university days, I didn't date anyone, despite numerous suitors. I had friends but it was on a surface. I was waiting for a deeper connection - someone to share a bond that transcends time and space with. I wanted someone that will make me feel loved, heard, and understood. I yearned for a partner who would appreciate me for who I am, my flaws and all. I wanted someone who would challenge me, support me, and encourage me to pursue my passions. I was waiting for someone who would be my rock, my confidant, and best friend. As graduation approached, pressure mounted. Every lady wanted a partner to take home to mom. But I found none in those four years. Self-doubt crept in: "Where did I get it wrong? Am I not attractive enough? Am I destined to be single?" Then, I realized it was a soulmate I was yearning for not just a friend. I didn't want to settle for less.
After graduation, fate intervened. I returned to campus to retake a course and mysteriously sat beside a particular guy, my junior, four consecutive times. Our friendship began, and I felt that deep connection. Initially, I declined his advances, thinking it wasn't ideal being my junior. Months passed, and I couldn't shake him off. I accepted his proposal, and everything fell into place.
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We were both mobilised for our National Youth Service Corp the same time, serving in the same state, the same local government area, and the same place of primary assignment. People marveled at our connection; it was beyond friendship. We would often look at each other, wondering how we ended up together. Years later, we made it formal. We married last December, and our bond grows stronger daily.
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Our relationship isn't perfect, but it's real. We argue, we laugh, and we grow together. My husband is my rock, my confidant, and my best friend. I've never felt this way about anyone before. He understands me like no one else, and I do the same for him. We balance each other out, and our differences complement each other beautifully.
However, while searching or waiting for a soulmate can be tiring at some point, the patience is worth it. Prayers can also be made to make it easier. So, to anyone searching for that soulmate, I will say: don't settle for less. Wait for the one who makes your heart skip a beat, who understands your quirks, and who loves you unconditionally. It may take time, but trust me, it's worth it. Patience and divine intervention can bring your soulmate closer, even when least expected. Soulmates do exist, it's never a myth.
All photos were taken by me.
