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A very beautiful stage of our lives is to be a mom, certainly is the time when you live everything, both good and bad moments, because sometimes not everything is good, but it's worth it when you get that beautiful smile or say I love you, that fills the soul and inspires you greatly. That is why as a mom we face different events, but above all we have phrases that characterize us when we are not behaving well as children.
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I remember that one of the phrases that mom used to say a lot was “Do what I say” this phrase was characteristic when we did not want to do what she said or when we said we would do something that she did not think was right, it was simply a phrase hard to forget but today that I am a mom I understand what she is referring to, Maybe it is not the way to tell a small child but it is a way to express some authority and stop them from doing what they want, it is inevitable to look for the best for our children, but it is also difficult for us to manage the work, the house and take care of them, to be aware of every detail, so we try to set our own rules, to avoid disorder and control the situation as much as possible.
“I am your mother, you owe me respect", without any doubt, it is something that cannot be forgotten, not only for being a mother but also for being a person you have to respect, care and support at all times, it is not easy to have control with your children, but trying to understand and love them makes it more bearable, mother always tried to be with us, help us in our studies and be a helping hand, in spite of her limitations we could count on her..
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I want to do the same with my son, teach him what I know and what I don't learn along the way, I like order and that he is responsible, I don't tolerate that he doesn't listen to me, but I try to understand him and transmit him what is right, we are human and we make mistakes, there is no manual on how to be parents, added to the fact that each child is different, the behavior that he may have will not always be the same, they say that the path is learned, but I believe that with patience, dedication and love one improves little by little.
Being a mother is not easy as I said before, you have moments of tiredness, exhaustion, stress, depression, but giving life to a little one, seeing how he/she grows and becomes a good man or woman is worth everything, our rules, my house, you do what I say, you respect me even if you are old I can give you a flip-flop, you are and always will be my baby. We don't stop being mothers no matter how old we get and how old our children grow up.
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