Behind every barren woman is an underlying disease that is slowly killing her everyday or a disgusting/dirty past that she despises so much . The pains and groaning at nights, the constant cries “Abba father” Why me”, the several mockery from the community, church, families and shockingly the ones we call friends is more torturing than being tagged a husband snatcher, afterall you stole someone's husband you can still walk out it if your conscience is still alive .And adoption is always somewhat the last resort of a hopeless barren woman.
Now looking at the case of the adopted child. Understand that behind every adopted child is a the child that prayed and cried silently and yarned for a motherly love as well as a fatherly shield and covering, behind every adopted child is one who has been criticized as if it were her fault that she had no mother nor father, behind every adopted child is one who has dealt with heavy heart born out of discrimination, molestation, injustice because he /she has no one to stand up for him/he, behind every adopted child is one who questions her value, worth and also questions where and what she did wrong to be in such situation.
Now my answer to this question;
There would be no next move but rather I would be engolved with mixed feeling, one of both joy and gratitude been that I have been given the privilege to enjoy the treasure in double parenting. And have been given the opportunity to know what it's like the be loved by a mother.my respect for them would grow more, becaue trust me the courage to take care of another persons child is less emphasised on in our world today . The other feeling is backed by the saying “blood is thicker than water”. A part of me would always want my biological parents at least to find answers to the questions running through my thoughts daily
WHY?(This would be based on the circumstances surrounding why I was adopted).