I remember that incident from months ago. I was even terrified not because I knew anyone who lives in Ibadan but for family/friends of people I know. Just imagine how worried I'd have been if I had a direct person there.
She probably felt that bring roommates/friends, you have to care about her wellbeing and look out for her. Which is true. At least she spoke about it and I hope you see from her perspective.
RE: Being called out