Traits are qualities that differentiate an individual from another. There are many different traits but I value some more than others.
The three life traits I think everyone should possess are Patience, loyalty, and Forgiveness.
The heart of Forgiveness is one important trait I think everyone should possess if people learn to forgive others for the wrong deed being done to them either intentionally or unknowingly, the world would be a better place, many people have a vengeful heart and one thing we also need to know is that when we refuse to forgive those who hurt us, we are only hurting ourselves more because we also would not have rest of mind till we carry out the revenge and it often does not end well.
We must learn to channel our anger towards doing something positive, anger is not a destructive spirit as most think, it only gives us the boldness to do things we won't do on a normal day, but many see it as a time to wreck havoc, It is understandable that we get angry when we feel frustrated or provoked but we can channel that anger into something better.
I remember when I opened my first bank account in the year 2012, I was scared to visit the bank alone and I was waiting for my sister to escort me but she was always busy, One day, I was very angry and then the bank thing flashed my mind and without thinking twice, I went straight to the bank to open an account, if not for the anger, I would still be waiting for my sister, I also realized when angry, I work faster and better because I am fully focus, I did not use my anger to fight others or cause commotions.
Learn to forgive others without hurting them back, you will be among the few who want to make the world a better and safer place.
Patience solve most problem but some people lack this trait and hence why they fail in several aspect of their life.
Most people forget that when we cultivate crops, we have to wait for months before we can start reaping from it, many just want to start earning a lot of money without much effort while some prefer the shortcut to success, this is also one of the reasons why some easily get scammed.
You will see people engage in the Ponzi scheme, pay 50, 000 Naira, and cash out 5 million Naira after one month, how is this possible? but some people are so gullible and they still go ahead to donate their hard-earned money in the hope of big returns without any effort from them.
I remember when I joined Hive 6 years ago, It was hard to earn the coin because I was a newbie and I saw people earning a lot because they already knew their way around, some newbies like me who were impatient left the platform due to the low to zero earnings on their blog but I foresee the future is bright for me and I stick with this platform regardless of the struggle and difficulties in getting audience and voters, Here we are now, the present is better than the past, at least all my post is above 1 dollar. My patience paid off.
This is the heart of all virtues, I have a thing for loyal people, not necessarily people loyal to me, I have respect when someone exhibits the act of faithfulness and being loyal to others.
It is difficult to see loyal and faithful people in the world we are now, especially in relationships and businesses, this is why people get killed when they team up with friends or others for business.
This is also the reason why we have many failed relationships, I wonder how many homes would be broken, how many marriages would crash if DNA tests became free, many men are rearing bastards without them knowing because of their wives' infidelity.
We have men running after married women too, some men don't care if a lady is engaged or not, they will even say it doesn't matter which is also one of the reasons that cause a lot of unfaithfulness in our society, I just wish most people can exhibit this virtue, leave other people's lover alone and in business, do not betray your friends for money.
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