Holla readers. Welcome to my blog. Its thoughtful week. Im going to be writing on being thoughtful and what it entails.
When one is a thoughtful person, he or she thinks about the manner, emotions, desires and opinions of other people. This is not about being able to increase the quality of your personal relationships but being thoughtful can influence one's life positively.
When thoughtfulness is being mentioned what comes to mind is what one can understand and do for other people. It means being able to embrace another person’s perspective, his or her actions and feelings. As a thoughtful person, you can't just help but be all pleasant and tender. Being thoughtful doesn’t mean sympathising and crying with another person, but it means you listening to that person and acknowledging their emotions, being able to relate to it.
There are actually various aspects of thoughtfulness. Another one is being alert or being more conscious. Being able to sit and also be willing to listen is a way of telling someone we appreciate their company. As a thoughtful person I try not to look down on people with their situation, and not being ride to interrupt when people speak. Petty things like this have sent favourable relationships my way. And it's makes the people see you as a thoughtful person and they'll also feel honored.
Very small things show how people are grateful. It really doesn't need to be the big things. Small things like Hi, I just called to check can go a very long way. Simple encouraging words, acts that show regard, that smile. I'm a testimony, these little things makes someone feel a little better or even happy.
Let's look at being thoughtful in a bigger way. Not only being caring but and the way we think but also about we approach our environment and the people in them. This jas to do with being careful about our actions and being careful cause there's consequences.
Besides, it is an ingredient for a person growth and development of a person. it makes people to be sensitive to their behaviors and how these have impact on others. When one posseses this quality, a he or she becomes tolerant, to be able to accept people and situations and constitutionalize them including oneself.
Lastly, as a thoughtful person that I am, I'm all about being positive all the time, endeavor to be kind, being empathetic, etc because the list is endless. Being thoughtful makes ones life richer and blessed.
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