Hello and happy Thursday Hivers! This is 
For this 181th challenge, I picked the song, "Lover" by our famous international singer, Taylor Swift. I chose to sing this song because I relate so much to the lyrics. As everyone knows, I have now in a long-term relationship with someone I really admire for four years already. When we were new as a couple, we easily got each other's hearts. I can say that even though we were only a couple a few months ago, it was as if we had been together for decades.
If I were to describe our relationship, we are like a dog and a cat who are always enemies. Ah, don't worry, the fight is nothing serious, but we just love to defend the differences in our views on different things. But one of the things I realized in our relationship is that we should accept our flaws in each other.
"And there's a dazzling haze, a mysterious ways about you dear.."🎶🎶
There were hundreds of moments that I always thought what's something special about my partner. Up to now I don't totally know how I started to love him completely and truly. One thing I know is that he is so unique. He is worth my trust and he is always the best even if he is not.
There are moments when I don't want to be away from him. If I could, I would glue myself to his body. That feeling is so mutual. I feel it every time we meet. The hugs, the kisses and all the unlimited cuddles are so special. I feel the faithfulness in our relationship.
One thing I also learn while our relationship lasts is to respect each other's "me-time". I know we won't always be sweet. Love is just so tasty, sometimes it's okay if the moments were getting bitter sweet or sour. It's valid if you make each other's disappointed. But I do believe that to keep the fire burning, you just gotta learn to respect one another. Give spaces, and also give your lover a chance to see the whole world.
Take note of this, you can't make your partner's world revolve around you. if you are in an early stage of relationship, learn to respect their time for other things. They want to go on a solo trip? Approve it. Want to take a rest and play their favorite sports? Let him do that. Love is not always about the things that need you to be there. That's because love is not forced; rather, it is about accepting your lover's personality inside and out.
@hiveopenmicWe could leave the Christmas lights up 'til January
This is our place, we make the rules
And there's a dazzling haze, a mysterious way about you, dear
Have I known you twenty seconds or twenty years?
Can I go where you go?
Can we always be this close forever and ever?
And ah, take me out and take me home
You're my, my, my, my
Lover
We could let our friends crash in the living room
This is our place, we make the call
And I'm highly suspicious that everyone who sees you wants you
I've loved you three summers now, honey, but I want 'em all
Can I go where you go?
Can we always be this close forever and ever?
And ah, take me out and take me home (Forever and ever)
You're my, my, my, my
Lover
Ladies and gentlemen, will you please stand?
With every guitar string scar on my hand
I take this magnetic force of a man to be my
Lover
My heart's been borrowed and yours has been blue
All's well that ends well to end up with you
Swear to be over-dramatic and true to my
Lover
And you'll save all your dirtiest jokes for me
And at every table, I'll save you a seat
Lover
Can I go where you go?
Can we always be this close forever and ever?
And ah, take me out and take me home (Forever and ever)
You're my, my, my, my
Oh, you're my, my, my, my
Darling, you're my, my, my, my
Lover
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