We want to be optimistic but fail sometimes unknowingly.
We find a lot of people around and we think their influence can be affected by the way we behave, which can be a reason. Coming to optimists and pessimists people, an average human cannot be 100% optimist or a pessimist either, but shows his qualities somewhat related to optimism or pessimism. Being an optimist would be a great idea, on the other hand, many people don’t agree with the concept of optimism as thinking positive may lead to unwanted consequences.
So, who are the optimists? They are happy, satisfied, and excited in every moment, with all positive thinking going on his/her brain. Since some people believe positive thinking never works, I think that our mental health will only improve when we are an optimistic person. We bother much about our physical health, yet feel negative, tired and depressed when something unwanted situation happens, which leads to a damaged psychological health.
Therefore, in order to be healthy all the time, control your feelings and try to do some other work which makes you happy at the moment. Learning how to control your emotions and feeling are such important things in order to become an optimistic person. The main difference between this two kind of people are when an unwanted and catastrophic event has taken place, the optimistic feels it is a temporary event and last only for few days or months, and he thinks it will not affect his future, on the other hand, pessimist feels bad about the consequence and start feeling miserable an never forgive himself for doing that. A single failure affects the pessimist in such a way that they think it’s their fault and they can’t do anything. Optimists, on the other hand, take this as a lesson and feels it rather improves his future than destroying.
The most important thing to be noticed is that when optimist met with any kind of consequences, he/she thinks it has nothing to do with himself since the problem can be from environment or atmosphere where things are out of control, pessimists, on the other hand, think environment has nothing to do with the result and feels he must have worked hard before.
I feel positive thinking is the key to success, yet I fail to do that sometimes. However, I try being an optimistic person ignoring all the other stuff which is bothering so much.