RULES OF THE FIRST DATE
(Funny tips for a first date to be screamed out loud)
The first appointment is always a delicate moment, hoped and awaited.
For some an emotion, for others a disappointment. But what's the use of not making the first appointment a total failure? (We also have the rhyme, yeah!).
Here are some simple educational tips to survive on a first date and get out unharmed and perhaps holding a second date.
1 :
Do not dress in such a way that you do not represent us: Okay, we want to impress, we like that person particularly, and I know that we are more likely to like them aesthetically if we meet his tastes or those we think so, but this is counterproductive, getting dressed in the eighties metal style if in reality we love the casual look just to impress is not a wise choiche . It is not correct to change your wardrobe to catch someone, sooner or later will understand that it is a fiction, better show immediately for what is on clothes included.
2 :
Being in the spirit is nice but will not burn everything? Okay, to make her / or fall in love you have to do it / laugh but if you have the humor similar to that of Benigni in Berlinguer I love you, with long torpiloquis of blasphemies, avoids. A couple of jokes are always welcome, but remember that you're not the Finocchiaro and you're not holding a monologue! A burst of beat will not make anyone laugh but just run away!
3 :
Listening does not hurt: Okay, you must know, do not know anything about you and it is right that you anticipate everything, but no! Leave a veil of mystery, talk about yourself spontaneously and above all listen, all, the verbal and non-verbal signals. Avoid being verbose, there are things that the other person will understand gradually, without needing you to tell him in one hour, life, death and miracles.
4 :
To be determined is right but between determination and dictatorship there is an abyss: Okay, decided people like them, but you can not choose only place, time, music, food and how many beers must take your potential parthner. You are a potential parthner not a mother-in-law. To ask the other person what he / she wants to do, to eat and to listen is not only courtesy but also a way to get in tune. Remember that you are not two in a solitary.
5 :
Money, Religion, Politics: Okay you like to discuss and bring up hot topics, but if you want to avoid an evening of controversy and debates and advisable to avoid these three issues, followed by "But you want to have children, do you want them, how many ?" and "What do you think of the wedding?".
I hope that these my little rules of etiquette have entertained you, we accept suggestions for this breviary of rules of the good date!
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