Many people choose to hire escorts to fulfil a particular fantasy or fetish; often because they are too embarrassed to broach it with partners, or people they meet. The truth is, that fetishes are a lot more common that you might first think; however, if you are thinking of hiring an escort to fulfil these fantasies, check beforehand that they are happy to engage with your wishes.
Here are some of the top sexual fantasies and fetishes:
Adult Babies:
Believe it or not, but adult babies are actually an extremely popular fetish. Adult babies is exactly as it sounds as well. People become sexually aroused when they are dressed in children and baby clothes. In some cases, the adult babies will completely regress, and wear nappies, get bottle fed by an adult, suck on a dummy, and crawl instead of walk. They might even speak only in ‘baby’ talk. Some psychologists and behavioural experts believe that adult babies seek the need to be looked after, often because they missed out on that attention when they were younger.
Foot Fetishes:
This one divides several people. A bit like Marmite…you either love feet or hate them; however, it is not uncommon for people to be aroused by both non-genital body parts, and non-sexual objects and feet are top of the list! Foot fetishes are incredibly common and it is not uncommon for escorts to be asked to pleasure and suck their client’s toes. For many, it does not end their either, and they will be turned on by anything that can be put on a foot, from socks, stockings, shoes and sandals.
Cross Dressing:
Cross Dressing is often something that men will want to keep quiet, with many feeling embarrassed about it, particularly if they consider themselves to be heterosexual, but in actual fact, it is a very common fetish, which can create a sense of escapism which many find erotic. Some become aroused by wearing clothes of a different gender, because, in real life, it is forbidden to them. it is something that they can keep a secret from everyone, and for some, this is the ultimate turn on.
Watersports:
Watersports is the act of being aroused by urine, whether it is the smell or feel, and is much more common that you might think. Many escorts will state whether they are happy to engage in watersports on their profile, but if you are unsure, make sure you check beforehand, as this one is not to everyone’s taste at all. Some people like to bath in urine, although, most commonly people will enjoy observing someone wetting themselves whilst fully clothed, or even acting as a human urinal – in other words, giving someone a ‘golden shower’. There are no real indications as to why people find this a turn on, but there are elements of watching someone when they are vulnerable and helpless, as well as elements of control and humiliation.
Domination And Submission:
BDSM and sub-dom relationships are among the most common sexual fetishes, and many escorts will offer this. It is centred around obedience, trust and consent, and should only be undertaken if both adults consent to it. It is important to establish boundaries, and a safe word, should things get too much. Although many people enjoy domination and submission as a one time thing, others will come up with a full time agreement with someone. There are many elements to this, but thanks to the release of Fifty Shades Of Grey, it has become a lot more mainstream.
Leather And Latex:
When you think about sexual fetishes, leather and latex are often what comes to mind, and simply refers to those who get sexual enjoyment from wearing, or being with someone who is wearing tight rubber, latex or leather material. The smell alone can often be enough to arouse someone. Outfits can vary from, leather catsuits, chaps, gimp masks, or even something more unusual, such as a gas mask.
Sexual Role Play:
Many people become sexually aroused through role play. For some, it is the chance to slip into another character, and engage in things they would never normally have the confidence to do. This fetish is incredibly common, and is more often carried out between couples. It simply involves acting out different roles in a sexual scenario, and can include dressing up in costumes, going to a certain location, or even using different props.
Spanking:
Spanking combines pain and erogenous zones and for many this is incredibly sexual, and a complete turn on. Most people are spanked on the area of the bum that meets the back of the thigh, resulting in arousal for many people, whether that is being spanked or the one that is doing the spanking. It is often used as part of a sub/dom relationship, as the person who is giving the spankings has complete control over their partner. There are many psychological suggestions as to why people enjoy being spanked, with many linking back to childhood, as it can remind us of being told off. Whatever your reason for enjoying it, rest assured that you are not alone, as it is one of the most common sexual fetishes of them all.