As marriage is a social necessity, it is also one of society's obligations to its members.
Fourth: Let a person expend all his might and ability to get a lawful hala, with which he can endure a marriage. Whoever strives earnestly will undoubtedly get it too late. Someone must work in order to give and not to receive, the hands above are better than the hands down.
Then the delay in marriage and one's feeling that unlawful relationships are haram pushes him seriously and seriously prepares a glorious life, in which he can gain the pleasure of a glorious home life.
That's how we see Islam does not provide a solution for problematics but some solutions for each person to take what he thinks appropriate and appropriate to the circumstances and conditions. And Allah is the giver of taufik.