LOH contest 133[Eng-Esp] Cuando amas por dos//When you love for two

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Buenos dias a esta bella comunidad,se acerca el dia de las Madres,momento feliz para toda mujer.no importa que no lo seas desde tu vientre pero en muchos casos se educa y se cria de igual manera a un sobrino o a cualquier otro.

Good morning to this beautiful community, Mother's Day is approaching, a happy moment for every woman. It doesn't matter if you are not one from your womb, but in many cases you educate and raise a nephew or any other in the same way.

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Esta posibilidad que la vida nos dio es una condición super especial,poder desde tus entrañas traer al mundo un ser humano,nos convierte en únicas.

This possibility that life has given us is a very special condition, to be able to bring a human being into the world from your own entrails, makes us unique.

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Provengo de una familia numerosa,donde la mayoria somos mujeres y el reto de esta semana me hizo hacer una revisión de la familia donde hace algún tiempo,dos generaciones atrás,en su mayoria somos madres solteras.

I come from a large family, where most of us are women, and this week's challenge made me review the family where some time ago, two generations ago, most of us were single mothers.

Me tomare la facultad de darles mi criterio desde la experiencia vivida de nacer y crecer en una familia de ambos padres y de convertirme en una madre soltera.

I will take the liberty to give you my opinion from the lived experience of being born and raised in a two-parent family and becoming a single mother.

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Cuando uno ya sabe que tiene en su vientre una personita comienza a fluir miles de ideas y pensamientos sobre él,queremos saber como sera,lo diseñamos,lo imaginamos desde que color de ojos tendra hasta verlos ya un profesional,pero de conjunto con ese sueño,tenemos la vida real,esa donde todos comienzan a emitir opiniones.

When you already know that you have a little person in your belly, thousands of ideas and thoughts begin to flow about it, we want to know how it will be, we design it, we imagine from what color eyes it will have to see them already a professional, but together with that dream, we have the real life, where everyone begins to issue opinions.

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Comienzan a decirte lo importantre es que nazca sano,que debe nacer con su padre al lado,que la educación es de los dos,etc,tu vientre crece y junto a el tu cabeza parece que va explotar.Si es lindo cuidar y criar a un hijo en un ambiente sano y familiar,donde ambos esten presentes.

They begin to tell you how important it is that he is born healthy, that he should be born with his father by his side, that education belongs to both of them, etc. Your belly grows and your head seems to explode. It is nice to take care and raise a child in a healthy and familiar environment, where both of you are present.

Pero no deja de ser lindo y sano tampoco cuando lo haces sola,a veces es mas sano,porque en muchos casos se tolera la presencia del padre solo porque cuide del hijo y coopere en su crecimiento y no nos damos cuenta que nos olvidamos de nuestro gusto y querer hacia esa persona y al final nuestro hijo solo esta presente en una relacion de sufrimiento y tormentos,que al principio no entendera pero que con el paso de los años se convierte en nuestro juez.

But it is still nice and healthy when you do it alone, sometimes it is healthier, because in many cases the presence of the father is tolerated only because he takes care of the child and cooperates in its growth and we do not realize that we forget our taste and love for that person and in the end our child is only present in a relationship of suffering and torment, which at first will not understand but over the years becomes our judge.

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Crie sola a mi hija,en el sentido de ser madre soltera,pero siempre existe una persona que te ayuda en ese tránsito de la vida,siempre hablando desde lo sentimental,creo que ser madre soltera para mi fue el mayor reto de la vida ,me hizo crecerme como mujer y profesionalmente.

I raised my daughter alone, in the sense of being a single mother, but there is always a person who helps you in this transition of life, always speaking from the sentimental, I think being a single mother for me was the biggest challenge of life, it made me grow as a woman and professionally.

Ser madre es algo que no te enseñan por lo que simpre estaras preguntandote si lo estas haciendo de manera correcta,siempre tendras dudas si lo que le exiges es lo justo o si es corrrecto,siempre quedaras insatisfecha porque creerás que podías hacerlo mejor pero de lo que nunca se tiene duda es del amor que se siente pr ese hijo.

Being a mother is something that you are not taught, so you will always be wondering if you are doing it the right way, you will always have doubts if what you demand is fair or if it is correct, you will always be dissatisfied because you will believe that you could do better, but what you never doubt is the love you feel for your child.

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Cuando eres capaz de amarlo,de educarlo bajo las normas del amor y el respeto,bajo la escencia de lo que es bueno en todo los sentidos,ese ser te amara para el resto de tu vida sin notar la diferencia de que fue criado solo por ti,siempre sin hablarle mal de aquel que contribuyo a su llegada al mundo pero no quiso estar presente,en su formacion, agradeciendole aun asi,porque tu niño no lo escogio,se lo escgistes tu,bueno malo, o regular y sino no pone su parte no estuvieramos hoy hablando de este reto.

When you are able to love him, to educate him under the rules of love and respect, under the essence of what is good in every way, that being will love you for the rest of your life without noticing the difference that he was raised only by you, always without speaking ill of the one who contributed to his arrival in the world but did not want to be present in his formation, thanking him even so, because your child did not choose him, you chose him, good, bad, or regular and if he does not do his part we would not be talking about this challenge today.

No importa ser madre soltera solo basta saber que eres madre y que ya tienes la responsabilidad de dejar tus huellas por el paso de la vida,asi que hagamoslo de la mejor manera para que tú, tú hijo y la sociedad vivan agradecido de ese acto hereoco de criar un hijo solo.

It doesn't matter if you are a single mother, just know that you are a mother and that you already have the responsibility to leave your footprints through life, so let's do it in the best way possible so that you, your child and society will be grateful for the heroic act of raising a child alone.

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