[Esp-Eng]Teach children to love life from childhood, say no to suic...

Hola y saludos a todos en esta comunidad en especial a nuestra querida

@parauri y mi estimada

@osisimi por la invitación a un tema muy sensible.

dolor

El suicidio en niños, y adolescentes son temas que por su naturaleza la gran mayoría evita comentar y hablar sobre él. Muchos más con los propios niños,

La gran mayoría pensamos que el mundo de los niños es perfecto, qué a esa edad es solo pedir y no pensar, que les exigimos que ellos solo tienen que estudiar y portarse de manera correcta.

Tuve la desdicha de conocer un niño que suicidio,tenía siete años, Cristobal,se llamaba

En todos mis post hablo que vivo en un barrio marginal,por llamarlo de alguna manera ,y, por tanto, siempre tengo por tarea cuidar mucho de los niños que me rodean aunque sean vecinos,

Cristobal era un niño alegra como todos cuando tiene 7 años cumplidos vivía solo con su mamá pegado a un río en un barrio llamado Juanelo, pero aun así era feliz ,en una crecida del río lo perdió todo dentro de su vivienda, pero entre los vecinos y el estado le ayudaron a recuperar algunas cositas.

tristeza

Sobre todo un televisor a color, su alegría era desbordante, pues, en su casa nunca hubo.

Pero como vivan en esa zona su mamá para poder salir a hacer algunas compras esperaba que Cristóbal llegara para que el cuidara del televisor que no se lo fueran a robar, Cristóbal empezó a dejar de jugar,no podía,

en muchos casos no salía a la calle en fin Cristóbal a veces ni a la escuela iba su mamá decía que no podían perder todo de nuevo hasta que un día ella salió y regreso y encontró a Cristóbal dormido al pie del televisor donde estaba escrito en su pantalla adiós mama

No vimos solo venir la perdida de Cristóbal, sino que no nos dimos cuenta de que esa perdida de todo lo material había dejado en su mamá a nivel sicológico una gran afectación que arrastro a Cristóbal.

alegria

Pero no somos capaces de darnos cuenta de que nuestra conducta en la mayoría de los casos ellos las perciben,la siente, cuando andamos por la vida aprisa porque ,la situación económica está dura, o sencillamente porque no tenemos tiempo, para ellos ,como ellos quisieran,

a veces vemos como los llevan de la mano caminando por la calles ellos con pequeños pasos porque se hizo tarde y casi tienen que correr a nuestro lado, hablan y no podemos escucharlos porque estamos atareados o hablan tontería décimos nosotros

nadie dice que la crianza,es fácil, pero soy de las que siempre digo el mundo de los niños es más difícil que el nuestro, porque ellos no siempre pueden comprender lo que ocurre a su alrededor y no es tenerlo a espalda de la de los problemas y usar el lenguaje correcto, porque los niños no se enferman lo enfermamos nosotros

por eso conversar con ellos escucharlos nunca es un tiempo perdido al contrario lo estarás ganando más que como hijo como un ser equilibrado emocionalmente invitando a

@nony

inglish

Hello and greetings to everyone in this community, especially to our dear @parauri and my esteemed @osisimi for the invitation to talk about such a sensitive topic.

dolor

Suicide in children and adolescents is a subject that, by its very nature, most people avoid addressing. And even more so with children themselves.

Many of us think that the world of children is perfect, that at that age they only need to ask questions and not think, that we only demand that they study and behave well.

I had the misfortune of knowing a child who committed suicide. He was seven years old; his name was Cristóbal.

In all my posts, I mention that I live in a marginalized neighborhood, so to speak, and therefore, I always feel it's my responsibility to take good care of the children around me, even if they're neighbors.

tristeza

Cristobal was a happy child, like any other. When he turned seven, he lived alone with his mother next to a river in a neighborhood called Juanelo, but he was still happy. During a river flood, he lost everything in his home, but his neighbors and the government helped him recover some of his belongings.

Above all, he got a color television. His joy was overflowing, since his house had never had one.

But since they lived in that area, his mother, in order to go out and do some shopping, waited for Cristóbal to come home so he could watch over the television and make sure it didn't get stolen. Cristóbal started to stop playing; he couldn't. In many cases, he wouldn't go outside. In short, sometimes Cristóbal didn't even go to school.

His mother said they couldn't lose everything again. Then one day, when she went out and came back, she found Cristóbal asleep at the foot of the television, where the words "Goodbye, Mom" were written on the screen.

We not only saw Cristóbal's loss coming, but we also failed to realize that the loss of everything material had left his mother with a profound psychological impact, which in turn affected Cristóbal.

But we are often unable to recognize that our behavior, in most cases, is perceived and felt by them when we rush through life because the economic situation is difficult, or simply because we don't have the time for them that they would like.

alegria

Sometimes we see them being led by the hand, walking down the street with tiny steps because it's getting late, and they practically have to run alongside us. They talk, and we can't hear them because we're busy, or we think they're talking nonsense.

Nobody says raising children is easy, but I'm one of those who always say that the world of children is more difficult than ours because they can't always understand what's happening around them. It's not about shielding them from problems and using the right language, because children don't get sick; we make them sick.

That's why talking to them and listening to them is never a waste of time. On the contrary, you'll be gaining more than just as a child; you'll be gaining emotionally balanced individuals.

Inviting @nony

[Esp-Eng]Teach children to love life from childhood, say no to suicide/amar la vida desde la infancia no al suicidio