Love is not controlling to the extent the individual on the receiving end feels suffocated... Love is kind and allows for choice and imagination. True love allows for freedom which always finds two individuals who truly care for one another in each other's arms. When actions do not follow the essence of the word love,then, love never existed and was but an elussion. When love is present the only torment is that of when but a glimpse of each other is possible. There are no harsh words or disparaging remarks. There is no fear or loathing...