When it is difficult to say that "I am sorry" .

How are you doing ? Hope your health is very good and have a great time. I have been busy with my job and house construction for a long time and could not find time to participate in the "Weekly Featured Contents" Contest. But today's contest title was so interesting that my heart compelled me to share my thoughts on it anyway۔ This title is interesting for me because sometimes it is very easy to advise someone else to apologize, but it is very difficult to apologize if someone himself is in the same situation.

Apologizing is most difficult when it is someone else's fault and you have to apologize. It happened to me many times when the fault was someone else's and I had to say that it was mine. You will also think that how is it possible that the fault is not even a man's fault and he says that it is my fault.

I am a married man and my parents live with me. Because parents are old, they get angry very quickly. Sometimes it happens that my wife makes a mistake. For example, if my wife breaks the dishes while working, my mother gets angry. Because of this, my wife also gets angry that why did the mother get angry, the dishes break while working. The wife is also right in her place.

When I am at home and if my wife makes a mistake, I tell my parents that this mistake is not my wife's fault, it is my fault. This has the advantage that my parents are angry with me instead of my wife. And my wife and my parents have a good relationship.

But that is because I love both my wife and my parents very much. If I do not love them and it is not necessary for me to maintain amicable relations between them, I should never call another's fault my fault. For example, when I am in my office and another man blames me for his mistake. It would have been very difficult for me to make excuses when it was someone else's fault.

It once happened that an impeller for a 700 horsepower pump had to be fabricated. It was quite a long task. Before I came to the workshop the guys who were working on it made the kit bigger and the impeller was smaller than its original size. People before me said that we had made it right, Zia later cut it and made it smaller.

Everyone tell me that if you have made a mistake, then apologize. But because it was not my fault, I did not apologize. It was very difficult for me to apologize without making a mistake. But my seniors told me that this would spoil the working environment of the workshop. We know it's not your fault, but it's better that you show your maturity and apologize.