Hello friends, are you one of the people who win or lose? ,If you do not know where to place yourself or if you want to change the position you are in, this post is for you.
Technically at birth, we all come to the world with potential, all different, but also all with talents needed to be successful. Most human beings have the ability to think for themselves and make use of their senses, however, they also have limitations.
The connotation to triumph that I want to refer to, is not a sweeping being, but who is authentic, trustworthy, sensitive, responsible in doings and focused on their goals without running over, so the loser would then be the one who bows to the caprices of others or makes you bend using strategies to achieve it and is able to runover.
Who is a winner?
A winner is a person who discovers his/her talents and potentials to know his/herself, they does not devote their life to the service of what they imagine it should be. On the contrary, winners recognizes fast and as such avoids consuming their energies in dramatic representations or manipulate . A winner is always aware that there is a difference between being affectionate and acting affectionately, between being stupid and acting stupidly or between being intelligent and acting intelligently, a winner is mostly an autonomous being who avoids the masks of superiority or inferiority.
Each person, even a winner with all their autonomy, can lose ground or fail in some aspects, it is not infallible, but in spite of that, they keep faith in themselves, this act which allows them to continue, they don't blame others because they assumes their responsibilities, acts and consequences. Winner's also knows that there is an opportunity for each thing and a moment for each activity, with that attitude they live in the present, uses the past as learning and expects the future with optimism.
This type of person's learns to know their feelings, limitations and contradictions, knows when they are angry and knows how to listen when others get angry, they also spontaneously give and receive affection, love and let themselves love, enjoy life, what they do , of what they eats, of people, of sex, of their triumphs and of the triumph of others, winners easily live in harmony without isolating himself from problems, since he deals with them and strives to have quality of life.
Who is a loser?
While it is true that we all come to the world with talents and potentials as expressed above, we also come helpless and dependent and many individuals remain with that condition their entire lives, due to many factors such as illness, poor nutrition, disappointments, unhappy relationships or other experiences of life that can come from childhood.
Loser avoids responsibilities of themself, falls into the game of manipulation, uses masks for fear that they see, so they avoid spontaneity, as well as try new things. It is difficult to give and receive affection for falling into manipulation in order to achieve that others live according to their expectations. These kinds of people rarely live in the present, dedicating themselves to living from memories of the past or expectations of the future.
Some losers are considered successful but anxious, successful but trapped, successful but unhappy, others as defeated, aimless, bored or unable to move forward, without realizing that only they can change that reality because they do not assume their responsibility, attributing it to others .
At this point you will say that you are a winner and I congratulate you for it, however you need to know that at some point we have been on one side or another, the difference is in the attitude that is assumed before life, looking from the inside and from there to travel, the important thing is to realize what you are in this moment of your life, and if for some reason you do not feel happy, then start and modify your habits to be where you want to be.
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