Whether we like it or not, everyone has pride, we were all birthed with it but it only takes individual effort to tame one's pride. Some have worked on themselves so much that when you see them or are privileged to cross parts with them, you will think they are perfect beings because of their level of humility and kindness.
It took them years of conscious efforts in nurturing the man or woman they became. It didn't just happen nor was it given to them the day they were born.
The way a person or child was brought up and the environment he or she finds himself also play a major role.
But aside from this, it is more of the individual duty to nurture and become the type of person he or she wishes or wants to be.

What Turns You Off?

In today's episode of what turns you off, whether you are a lady or a guy, we all have those qualities or characters we all look out for in a person. Some in those we wanna be friends with, some when choosing a companion or life partner, and some even when doing business. There are certain characteristics we look out for, for a businessman trying to build his brand he is gonna look out for a lot of qualities in his employees even before employing them, and for partnership, the same is the case, there are things to look out for before partnering with anyone in business.

For marriage purposes, guys always tend to look out for homely, modest, and decent ladies especially here in Africa, they believe they always make a great wife and know how to manage and maintain a home and family.

So what then are those things that turn you off when you look out for some qualities or characters in people and you aren't seeing or getting them?

Speaking of pride earlier, I am easily irritated and disgusted when someone displays some kind of proud attitude. I hate hearing stuff like;
I am the CEO of my Father's company,
I have Lexus, Benz, name them,
I am working on a project that will soon make a name,
I want to come and pay your bride price because I want you,
I am rich, I have the money and what it takes
Like what in the world? Who asked you all of those? It's disgusting, extremely disgusting to hear.
I once went on a sit-out with someone that asked to meet up with me and all this dude was talking about the entire time was about his fame and money, are you for real? in my mind, I was like did he honestly ask me out here just to tell me how well he is doing?
I couldn't wait to get my already irritated self back home. I never even thought of ever meeting such a despicable person ever again in my entire life.

It's okay if you have all the money, the fame, and all, but must you really carry all of those on your head? Let these things speak for you. If you have it all, let it be seen and spoken well of, and not you going all proud and boastful about it.
Boasting of one's possession or wealth is the biggest turn-off for me
How about you? What turns you off?

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                13 July 2022
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