Growing up, I never liked going out often. I will always find an excuse not to even when I am being invited to lunch/dinner dates or even a sit-out with friends. I tend to enjoy staying indoors or just surfing and fiddling with my phone at home.
If I can't find other things doing, I rather engage myself with my drawing and painting tools. I don't like going out often and it became a habit.
Sometimes I would lie about being busy just so that I will avoid being asked out on a date or will turn down the request as soon as it comes.
But if I am convinced enough and put one into consideration and agree to go on a date, then there is one and most important rule I keep to and the person must stick to or accept it. And that has to do with a choice of location. I hate crowded places, and over the few times I have been on a date with people or a sit-out, I choose a quiet and reserved place around my city. And fortunately for me, I am always given the liberty to make my choice and I would do this with pleasure.
A few of my friends know how much I hate attention and people's eyes on me so I usually avoid places that would expose me to lots of eyes. I enjoy a rather calm and quiet place, and I would do just anything to sit in such places having a one-on-one conversation with the person I am out with.
When it comes to going on a date, I don't have many rules or perhaps there are a few more, but this very fact is of all the most important.
And I usually tell some of my friends that there are just places, I would not imagine myself being even if I am on a date. There are just some places I wouldn't risk going out to or being seen at.
Inasmuch as I like a peaceful living void of side talks and gossip, I also wouldn't want to pose a problem to others.
And thankfully for me, this rule of mine is always followed without hesitations.
This is my response to the @ladiesofhive contest week #107, question two (2).
2锔忊儯 What are your most important rules when going on a date?
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