Excuses became our biggest weapons. When we fail to take responsibility for our own action or doesn't have full control over our choices we come up with excuses. Sometimes it may feel like excuses are saving us. But in the long run, you will see how you have lost it. Especially when we talk about a relationship!
We make thousands of excuses to make a relationship word, isn't it? We don't accept facts, we fear to face the truth and eventually we make excuses. Whether or not we think it's saving us but it's actually running our relationships and thus our life. It can be about avoiding consequences, hiding something or any other thing but it's never a good choice.
We must make it clear to ourselves that 'we should stop making excuses when it's not working.
But the truth is we can't follow these simple words. You may find many abusive relationships and for your surprise, you will find thousands of their excuses to be in that relationship. It's not hard to leave someone or come out from a relationship when it's not working but it's hard to make the choice.
That's why understanding this is very necessary!
Excuses don't save any relationship, it makes it worse day by day. You can choose the solve it but if you choose to make excuses to avoid the consequences, facts; it will never work. It will never bring anything good.
Stop making excuses from now on if you do. Sit, settle, and solve your relationship problem if you want to make it happen. Choosing excuses, no matter how good it may sound and necessary it may feel will never make it work in the long run. The choice is yours!
