Hello friends of steemit, today I will talk a little about an issue that is difficult to address, since each person fulfills their process differently and especially internal processes. Each person in particular has their way of thinking, speaking, feeling and healing. That is why I will talk about the grieving process.
This issue came to me when I remembered when I started college, a study partner with whom I studied math and often studied at home, her parents took her to a psychiatrist because she was going through a process due to the loss of her partner. that made their attitudes not the most correct. And I clearly remember that his diagnosis was DUEL SYNDROME
First time I heard that grief could cause a syndrome and remembering that anecdote I was interested in investigating a little more about the process of grief in people. Let's start asking ourselves: What is a duel? For me a duel is a painful process that we all pass through the loss of a love, a loved one, a pet, in the face of the loss of people, beings or things we love.
According to Wikipedia the duel:
It is the process of emotional adaptation that follows any loss, be it of employment, of a loved one, of a relationship, etc. Although conventionally the emotional response of loss has been focused, grief also has a physical, cognitive, philosophical and behavioral dimension that is vital in human behavior and that has been much studied throughout history. The concept of mourning is an individual process that each person suffers and that can affect the capabilities of the human being.
On the other hand we know that a syndrome is a group of symptoms and signs that characterize a disease
According to a well-known Spanish doctor, the Duel Syndrome
It is a very painful syndrome that occurs after the loss or death of a loved one, the trance is usually very painful for the person who suffers it and considers it to be unfair and has a hard time accepting the loss as something natural. The affected person will feel pain and changes in their environment after the absence of the being. When we begin to go through a painful situation our body begins to experience changes, such as weight loss, lack of appetite, concentration, desire to cry, lack of sleep (insomnia), changes in mood. In addition episodes of diarrhea, dizziness, nausea may occur; feel a lump in the throat, or rapid heartbeat; suffer from headaches or hyperventilation.
Each person lives this process differently, doctors have classified this process in stages such as: phase of denial, anger, negotiation, depression and finally acceptance. Each stage or phase is lived in a very individual way there are people who manage despite their pain accept the loss, others suffer their whole life of depression for not overcoming the loss and others come to commit suicide for not knowing how to overcome the pain caused by the absence of being. For this reason the people who go through the process of grief must be understood, losing a loved one is not easy, it takes time to accept and digest it and acceptance requires time and space, we must understand that we all express pain in a way There are different people who prefer to cry, be accompanied and there are others who, in situations of pain, prefer not to talk and isolate themselves until they accept the loss. And acting like that should be understandable since this is a strong process and nobody is prepared to face it or live it.
For this reason the people who go through the process of grief must be understood, losing a loved one is not easy, it takes time to accept and digest it and acceptance requires time and space, we must understand that we all express pain in a way There are different people who prefer to cry, be accompanied and there are others who, in situations of pain, prefer not to talk and isolate themselves until they accept the loss. And acting like that should be understandable since this is a strong process and nobody is prepared to face it or live it.
I hope you like my post, happy day!
