There are various problems in this life, everyone has their own problems and no one living in the world does not have problems, it's just how we deal with these problems and solve all the problems that exist
Frequent fights and hostility occur just because of trivial things, different arguments and misunderstandings so that they are willing to fight to the death to force others to obey and submit to them, this is really embarrassing
If you realize with all your heart, peace, tranquility and harmony are more beautiful than fighting, respecting each other is also everyone's dream to achieve all that does not mean that there are no problems in establishing friendly relationships with partners and also society, but the way to solve the debate that must be understood together is not by fighting but looking for a good solution, respecting each other's opinions and also giving in to each other from there harmony will be created in relationships and without hostility
I have my own way of resolving arguments, yes, the more I get here, the more mature my way of thinking in solving problems, if in the past when I was a teenager I was more arrogant to solve a problem and force others to submit to me and assume that I am more right than others, but at my age as an adult now my way of thinking is very different
I prefer to hear criticism of my mistakes and I also prefer to hear advice and opinions from others that are different from my wishes then we both find solutions to the differences in arguments, often I choose to back down and avoid debate when I see that they are already at the stage of anger and high emotions sometimes I choose to leave to avoid arguments and fights
If asked if I am afraid,? no I'm not afraid to fight but I prefer calm and peace, because for me people who like to get angry are stupid people they cover up their stupidity with anger and don't want to think with a sane and peaceful mind, because I also experienced something similar when I was a teenager
Most fights end in regret and almost everyone involved in it must feel regret I can't be sure that a fight won't cause regret because when anger peaks the fight occurs the brain is no longer able to think and all body parts are controlled and controlled by lust completely so that bad things happen even everyone doesn't want it to happen but it all happened
Why does regret happen later after all the fights have happened? As we discussed earlier when arguing our brain is no longer able to think well, it cannot distinguish between what is right and what is wrong, when everything has gone and our brain can think positively again, that's where regret will occur and want to go back to that time to fix it if you can't control that feeling of guilt, it is possible that something bad will happen to his psychology and become a burden on his mind that becomes prolonged depression
From that I prefer to step back and restrain myself from stepping into a debate that ends in arguments and regrets, whether with a partner, family, or friends.
That's what I can describe about resolving my version of the debate, thank you for coming, I hope you enjoy this discussion
Indonesia April 16, 2025
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