Hello
Today, I'm back with you. I'll be discussing our discussion based on the theme we've chosen for this episode: planning or impulsiveness. I think this is very interesting because we all have different principles. Some people plan before taking action, while others don't want to burden their minds with planning. They prefer to just go with the flow and think before acting without thorough preparation or planning.
I'm someone who prefers to plan before acting or doing anything. I don't want less than perfect results due to a lack of thorough preparation and planning. I believe that planning will maximize the results, and I feel more satisfied and fulfilled than success achieved without any planning or effort.
I plan and practice repeatedly before taking any concrete action. A few days ago, I attended a thesis defense to further my education. I planned thoroughly and tried to practice. I did it a week before the defense began. I planned very carefully, so I was able to pass it very well. I answered all the lecturer's questions well, and I got an A. That's where my satisfaction was achieved, and I was very proud that my sacrifice and effort truly paid off and brought good results. In stark contrast to my friends who didn't plan beforehand; they felt nervous or shaky during the defense, unable to answer the lecturer's questions, and their grades were certainly lower than mine.
From this, I can conclude that planning is very important for us, but there are... We also sometimes have to do things without planning. However, it's certain that everything that begins with planning will produce more optimal and well-organized results than those that don't plan at all. I actually dislike those who don't plan before taking action because we understand that human nature is always prone to mistakes and shortcomings. Therefore, to avoid these shortcomings and errors, planning is essential.
Furthermore, I also implement planning in my family before taking action. For example, in our relationship, we carefully plan when to have intimate relations and when to have children. We plan everything thoroughly beforehand. This ensures that we are mentally and financially prepared, eliminating the fear and stress we feel because we have planned everything.
In my experience, when I see them feeling depressed, afraid, and failing at something due to a lack of preparation and planning, they know their limitations as human beings, but they never plan and hope to achieve perfect results by relying solely on luck. I don't think that's possible, even though they do get lucky and achieve good results, even without planning, it only happens once or twice, and they lack satisfaction or pride in themselves. the achievement just passed like that
In conclusion, plan well so that we get satisfactory results and even if the results are not good, it means that we have tried and really have no regrets, maybe my opinion is so sorry if I am wrong and offend you.
