Hahahaahahaha. This topic is a funny one, that's why i started by laughing. Adulthood is a very funny stage of life. Back then we were all praying to grow up and become adults so as to have all the freedom you need in life, but we forget that even the freedom we are looking for comes with a price to pay. Nothing is really free in life, even to listen carefully you must PAY attention.
Now back then , we never liked how our parents use to tell us not to go to some places , we were always restricted from doing certain things and we felt bad and feeling as if they don't really like us, because we never knew the consequences of those our actions, we never knew that what ever happens then that they take responsibility on our behalf. Now we are all grown up, staying alone and having that freedom that we crave for, knowing fully well that any action or inaction from us we take the responsibility . We wanted freedom to be eating and chewing ball the meat , now even the money to buy the meat to eat to your satisfaction is a problem, especially if you are also have people you are taking care of now, you know what that means.
The decisions we always wanted to make for ourselves, we have the power to make it now but we now think more than twice before taking a leap, knowing fully well that every wrong decision comes with a consequence and in one way or the other will involve our finances. At times adulthood can teach you a lesson in the aspect of relationship, business etc.
Now we know that all that glitters are not goal. The adulthood we were craving for is not really rosey the way we use to perceive it. The more you look the less you see, the closer you get the more it unveil its different colours, solve one problem and get two free. The home that we use to pray of leavening now is a safe place for us anytime we visit.
But the truth now is, we are here and we are here, we can't go back. Any how it is we are still coping, we are pushing and we know that one day everything will be fine. Knowing fully well that it can only get better and nothing less . One strategy that I have adopted now is that, I have come to agreement with myself that I need my full peace of mind. Anything that wants to temper with my sanity, I avoid it, what I can't afford for now, I peacefully let it be while working hard to ensure I get even the best in days to come. I plan well before taking an action, I help those that I can. Because we are already in the adulthood of a thing and no going back, it's either I win or I win , no two ways about it.
