Criticism is part of society. It is one of the evils of the human being, since most have the bad habit of criticizing, either because you do good or do wrong and that majority do it with anger, with envy, they are even destructive and I tell them something, those people are incapable, because I assure you that they have not built anything in their lives or they are poor in soul.
Since children criticize us, starting with our parents, they think that by criticizing they are doing well, that we are going to improve on the contrary, at times it makes us feel inferior and that we can not do such or such, often at that early age we feel vulnerable, so you have to know how to say specific things, with affection and good words in the form of reflection when referring to our children, because those words will influence your whole life, make you understand that these tips are for personal improvement. This happens as we grow and reach adulthood, a badly healthy criticism is not good for any individual, to do so we must have a lot of tact, as there are words that hurt, may even be offensive and affect us greatly.
Many times we seek the acceptance and approval of society, always trying to do our best to praise and recognize us, partly it is good because we seek to be good citizens but if conversely they speak something bad about you, they touch your feelings, if you do not have a high and strong self-esteem, any criticism you make will overwhelm you the effort you have made, instead with a well-planted self-esteem, we will take those criticisms to analyze, correct, trying to improve and not, affect us emotional level.
As it is also true that there are people who have attitudes and actions that are not the most ideal, that are stumbling on others or simply doing it wrong, that are inevitable not to criticize them, but nevertheless you have to see what problem it brings, have some empathy to understand and help as much as possible.
We also make mistakes, although it happens that we are not perfect, then we have the opportunity to assume and change the bad for the good or to let you know in the best way that is the constructive criticism.
For this reason I invite you to NOT accept more bad intentions that can destroy and mark you for your whole life. Learn to WANT, we are unique and original.
DO NOT LET THAT HAPPEN. They want an advice from Friends !!.
fountain image 1.: http://www.salud180.com/salud-dia-dia/te-es-dificil-responder-las-criticas
fountain image 2.: http://toquedeluz.es/blogtoquedeluz/criticas-piensen-los-demas-de-ti/
fountain image 3.: http://tijuana.brahmakumaris.org.mx/autoestima-y-meditacion/
