So you want that somebody teaches you how to think.
Unfortunately, nobody can teach you how to think. This is completely up to you, it's something happening in your head, between you and yourself. If someone claims otherwise, it means you'll become his or her puppet.
Nonetheless you can learn, and people can teach you, how to check the correctness of your reasoning, when it makes sense to talk about correctness. You can learn how to pursue rationality.
Be not tempted to sound rational because you want to win arguments: being rational means to be searching for a cognizable truth, namely a truth which is such because you have built rational correct arguments that brings to it.
Be prepared to be questioned by other rationalists: nobody can be always faultless.
The point is to reach altogether a truth that can stand every check thinkable and feasable so far. And when it doesn't, don't be ashamed: it's how things must work. Take the newly traced path and find your (new) way towards truth. It's not a defeat but a new angle you will like to explore.
Be prepared to be laughed at or despised by non-rationalists.
You are also warned that if you pursue perfect rationality, you could be labeled as a cold, cynical, heartless idiot by emotions-driven common human beings.
rationalists must not be touched by non-rational arguments. Non-rational arguments are out of scope.
Your every day life experiences will teach you that you don't want to be always rational in every single moment of your life. Likely it would be boring (it would look so to many non-rationalists) and likely it would make harder to have new friends, or just to enjoy life as it comes.
You must be careful when you turn your strict rational mode on. Be sure you are talking to, or writing to another human pursuing rationality.
Remember that the vast majority of non-rationalists take confrontationally all kinds of arguments which aren't a plain nod to their expressed thoughts.
Non-rationalists usually will think you are worthlessly nitpicking because you have a different opinion about what they have said. Hardly they will respond rationally to your reasoning and understand how their opinions rest on really weak or badly faulty reasoning (if this is the case — if it isn't, they would be entitled to the name rationalist, even if temporarily, and they won't overreact to your well-formed nitpicking).
Other resources exist. Just be rational when you try to understand if they are really pursuing rationality or rather if they pretend to, in order to achieve other purposes.
A brain By Allan Ajifo [CC BY 2.0 (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/2.0)], via Wikimedia Commons