Enjoying a cup of coffee is like find a person

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It must be stirred, must inhale, must be slow. Do not just hurry to take a sip of bitter head, but miss the sweet taste behind ...
There is a saying that I hated: "I want to use my whole love to love the one true, not to break it up for the love ná ..."

Because I find it like a sophistically untrue statement. What kind of love love? Do we have to live in the movie, to first meet the other recognize the true love of his life? I think the love in this life is not high abstraction, the most important is the sympathy from the two sides. At least, when you have the feeling of "na ná love" with someone, it must also be more special than normal social friendships.
Let me tell you a story. I know a very special person. He was from the high school days as the idol of many juniors like us. He is handsome, learning the top, super jump, extracurricular activities from the right table. But we never saw him walking next to a ball of roses.

For a while, I suddenly found his facebook. He is "more terrible" than the old, won many great, career future wide. But facebook is still just a job, and the loneliness as gray cover life. Lover of his personal page, I just know he is an extremely worshipers of "eliminating" the na ná love that I said above! People like him do not lack the beautiful girls pursue, he can spoiled for intimate photography, go out to play with them, but he insisted not "touch" before anyone (both female male).

At times I thought about him, and imagined him to be like a beautiful crystal vase, people around him watching with admiration, but no one dared to touch, for fear of the clumsiness of I will shatter that perfect thing. In the end? He still walks alone, day by day waiting for someone "subtle enough" to party.

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Many of my friends are in a deadlocked love, because they care so much about the things that come together. Personally, I find it so wasteful of time, because it's not easy to find a person-especially for you to think like that. Have you ever had a lifelong bond?

Love is to accept a lot. Acceptance to sympathy, to change, not blind. Like the way you treat the love ná love, you know when you open your heart to accept, you realize that is the person that I have been looking for so long? Life is very tough, but there are still beautiful love that does not need a thunderbolt or the feeling of heart beat shaking at first encounter.

Learn a person the same way you enjoy a cup of coffee, must stir, must inhale, must be slow ...

Do not just hurry to take a sip of bitter head, but miss the sweet taste behind ...