There is a sense of liberation when you know you can handle anything that comes your way. With that kind of inner certainty, you know you can master any moment.
When you understand this, you can take whatever, and I mean whatever life can throw at you and learn a valuable lesson from it. Example, Over the past few months my family has been hiding important information from me pertaining to my youngest daughter who her mother and I do not get along. In the past I have told my family to keep me informed, but they haven't for their own personal reasons. Yes, was upset about it, but I was not going to allow the negativity to control who I am as a person. I addressed it with my family and I moved on. The lesson is: blood makes you related, loyalty makes you family.
Learn to see the good in everything that happens to you. By doing this, NOTHING can take away your happiness.