Having a harmonious household is indeed becoming every couple's dream. Harmonious family, home situation stairs will be peaceful, pleasant, and comfortable. According to my observations, to build a household harmony is not as easy as turning the palm of the hand. A person or partner must both try and struggle create a state or atmosphere of harmony in the family the. Then what are the ways or tips for building a house? the harmonious ladder? Let's talk together.
There is a song lyric: "Let no lie between us, love." Exist Many things will hinder the creation of a harmonious atmosphere if we are not open and honest with each other. Openness and honesty seem to be the main capital or foundation the most important thing in building a peaceful household. Even though sometimes something will be said openly and
full of honesty it feels bitter, but believe me it will increasingly create opportunities for the creation of a family that greater harmony.
Every couple has their own emotions. There are emotions that can explode at any time if partner can't control it. When someone's emotions
uncontrollable, a family may then take place not harmonious. From here we learn emotional control when there is a debate between partners, it must be able to controlled in such a way. It can start with us alone. Silence and relent when there is a coachman debate with partner, or have a heart-to-heart talk.
Getting married and building a household is indeed requires commitment from a partner. Commitment here I mean it as a way to strengthen each other's attitude and view and hold on to each other. So when we serious about domestic harmony, we have to make commitment with our partner and then take care of each other each partner's commitment. We and our partner must speak openly and share opinions for each other accepted and adhered to when running the household. With a mutually agreed commitment, then most likely family harmony will be created.
This fourth tip is no less important. If the reader has have children, then try to prioritize at least make time to be with the family. Don't too late in work or other activities so that then the family becomes neglected. These tips are perfect for every couple who is busy with business and office work.
Make time to gather, be active or be creative at least once a week to maintain family harmony. Usually weekends are the most popular time for
a family carries out activities and activities in or in outside the house. And keep in mind, never bring trouble from outside (for example work problems) into the house.
I have friends since elementary school. Now Already marry. At first the household was running normally and harmonious, but the harmony is gradually lost because the influence of the environment in which they live. It's the environment the place where they build a household has an air
materialistic ones, for example when a husband and wife buy household appliances such as chairs or refrigerators or electronic devices, neighbors
suddenly envious and want to buy immediately for fear of being unrivaled.
Things like that make my friend's household Gradually the harmony dwindles. On that basis, when it comes to choosing a house for the family
household, don't forget also for us to consider residence location. Why is that? This is because of the location the home environment will have an influence on the pattern of harmony of a family. The environment will have an effect for ourselves and family members. If we are in the neighborhood
good, then our personality and family members will also be go well. Then family harmony will come true.
Not a few cases of domestic violence that lead to divorce because of love or attention discriminatory. Just want to love his biological parents while her mother-in-law was ignored. On the other hand, there is husband or wife who pays more attention to their in-laws than his biological parents because he was pressured by the wife's good character or husband. In fact, according to my own reflection, marriage is not only for us to love our partner but also we must be ready to love his family, especially his parents who will become our mother-in-law. Because for the author of the truth
Marriage is not only uniting two people, but also unite two families. So don't forget to make a braid or a good relationship with the in-laws' family. How how to have a good relationship with family this mother-in-law? We can start by always taking the time to communicate.
Hopefully this article is useful for friends who want to get married and who already have a household.
I quote this article from my personal book that I published around 2019. Even if there are similarities with the writings of some literature from the internet, it might just be a coincidence. Because I also often find people quoting writings from my work without my knowledge.
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