Feminism and the empowerment of women has destroyed society. I hate even saying that, but what other conclusion can we make if women have chosen every wrong path? I can’t say that I blame them when the entire society is lying to them. Ten percent of American women between the ages of eighteen and twenty-four are sex workers. Tens of millions of women are choosing infertility. The education system, where 75% of teachers are female, is encouraging the extinction of society as it drives its own industry profits by encouraging women to get college degrees, delay having children in favor of careers, and promoting student loan debt. 74% of teachers polled express unhappiness with their profession.
Young women are being programmed by society to fail. I will use a very personal illustration to point out examples of the issues young women face. My wife and I help dozens of girls around the world and the situation is very common. This morning I was chatting with one of my “kids,” a brilliant young woman in a third world nation. Her family is poor and there was an argument last night. The grandparents were complaining that their adult grandchildren were expecting them to use their meager pension to fund the girl’s lifestyles and education, which is far greater than theirs was. Both parents had legal issues and only one parent is helping with schooling. The twenty-five-year-old sister, an unmarried mother of two kids, refused to pay for her expenses. She is unemployed and her statement was that she would just go to live with the family of the father of her kids. The college age girl that we help support, complained that without the support of her grandparents, she could not afford her schooling, especially her “snacks, shampoo, and transportation.” Student employment is virtually unheard of and there is rarely food in the house. Medical and dental care is nearly non-existent. These girls want to go to college, and the social pressure to do so is extreme, yet getting their eyes checked and buying a pair of glasses is a major expense. The largest industries in that nation are exporting workers, largely women doing domestic or factory work in Asian nations with crushing infertility, and supplying wives overseas. Very few women in that nation are getting married, even if they have children by men who don’t marry they, and very few teenage girls express and interest in being a mother. They have seen what it is like to raise children in a society that has poor family structures. The government and the predominant church organization have bad policies that aggravate the situation.
This illustrates the issue that these young women face. Rather than reaching the age of their late teen years with the goal and societal support to become professional wives and moms, they want to enjoy a social media lifestyle, post TikTok videos, go to college, and travel. I understand. They want to have freedom and the lifestyle they see on Korean Dramas and are told about in school growing up. The problem is that the Korean fantasy dramas they are watching are produced by a society that is depopulating at a 96% rate. The entire thing is a lie, they will be virtually extinct by the end of the century and there is nothing they can do about it. These girls can’t achieve the lifestyle they desire because their families don’t have enough money, and to a large degree the families are poor because of the policies of the church, the government education system, and the lack of proper inheritance values.
Similarly, even for the girls who desire to marry, the available inventory of men who are able to provide for and support a family is very, very small. In any mammal population the number of males who qualify as good biological and sociological candidates for reproduction is usually around 10% – 20% maximum. The other issue is that in most nations, extremely few human males in their twenties qualify financially to support a wife and four children, perhaps as low as 2%. It takes many years for a man to mature and build a business or career that allows the finances to support a wife and kids, so in many cases, the women end up working outside the home. The problem in many nations is that these men are having sex with young girls and babies are born to single moms who end up raising them in poverty, like the girls we help.
I know another woman in Uganda, an unmarried mother of two children by different men. She is a Christian woman, active in her church, and routinely asks for money to cover her expenses as employment is scarce for uneducated poor woman. Her pastor has not encouraged her to find a decent man and get married. Having many poor women devoted to church activities looks good to man pastors. I have actually even introduced her to a wonderful man, but she wasn’t interested. I understand that quality husband candidates are hard to find, that is part of the subject of my paper on Marriage. In her social circle, polygamy would be discouraged, but there are few good men, so the women and children suffer. Think about how much it would improve if three or four of these women grouped together and shared a husband, worked together to improve finances and raise children. Modern Christian culture does not support this kind of wisdom, so we have single mothers and unhealthy children.
My grandfather was a world-famous behavioral psychologist who specialized in elephants. I often heard him say that the role of the dominant males in society are to pass on their excellent genetic material and control the young males. Humans have done a very poor job of that.
