Situations like this happen in life and irmt is more common than you think. Amina, in my opinion, did not do you bad by telling you, NO although i feel her delivery could have been softer but you know us women, we are like this most times and this is like the major way for us to express our feelings. We can express it in the most unfiltered way. She actually did you more good than harm in the process. Look at the bright side, you got married to a beautiful woman who LOVES you