Often, those who do not wish to take steps to resolve conflicts simply do not understand the seriousness of the moment.
It is bad when there is no agreement in “comrades,” especially when it comes to the fact that one of the spouses does not make efforts to build relationships. As a rule, it is a man. The fact is that many men are sure that everything that is necessary for a happy marriage, he has already done - got married.
He is not going to do anything else. At least, until he realizes that everything is crumbling. To bring him out of this state is not easy, but quite possible. It is only necessary to attract his attention. But let's talk about this below.
Not only men are indifferent and thick-skinned. Women, at least some, may also be indifferent to the future of their families. I faced with such. And I noticed that if a woman shows no interest in preserving marriage, then that one is almost 100% doomed.
Indifference is hard to win but not impossible
And this is confirmed by statistics, which claims that 80% of divorces are initiated by women. This does not mean that men do not make decisions in favor of separation, on the contrary, they do it quite often, but more often they can be influenced and they change their minds.
So, our wrong decisions lead to disagreements, and one of the parties does not want to do something to resolve the conflict. Most often these are men. How to reach him? Simply. What is needed is a situation that will clearly show him that the problem has not been invented and is quite serious for himself.
It is difficult to embody. Because you need to put it at the very edge of the cliff, so that it looks in its depth. Some I advise to go live with a friend, in the country or go somewhere without warning. The main thing that you do not like it. Others need to pack a suitcase ... for someone to stop paying bills. Each family has its own decisions, but one thing remains the same: if a family member does not want to solve the problem, does not go towards and leaves the conversation, then he must be put in front of the obvious ...
Have you already encountered indifference?
