All I can help you with and as far as I'm concerned, we can't wait for others to do what we want, if you don't like the way something is, you do something about it and change it, otherwise it is very likely that everything will stay the same.

You can't do justice to everyone, you're right, that's the reason why trying to please everyone is the way to leave everyone unsatisfied, you can't, and you shouldn't. It is about making decisions, but in the end, there is no right or wrong, only us acting as judges.

The highest authority is your own, lonely and without any secure hold.

So it is, and so it should be.

Regards!