Interesting. Midlife Magazine only showed up with active VPN.
“wives feel secure enough in their relationship to not ask many questions.”
No, most of their wives have divorced them and the men are now without relationship. You are so out of touch.
“destroy it all – their marriages … their families … and even their careers.”
No, it was there wives which destroyed – their marriages … their families. And a disgruntled female coworker who destroyed their careers.
“Men married 20 or 30 years often become disgruntled with their wives. ”
Wrong again. It's the wives who become disgruntled and start looking for something new and exiting.
“Quitting your job; getting a new partner; and becoming a whole new entity is not the answer.”
Tell that the wives. Women cheat more than men, Women initiate divorce more than men.
Yet another article where the author blames the failures of women onto men. Gender reverse the article and you are closer to the truth.
What’s Wrong with Men These Days? - Midlife Magazine
https://www.midlifemagazine.com/whats-wrong-with-men-these-days-3/