Hello everyone in the neoxian community, hope you all in here are doing well.
The way to making a better life through dreams come true marriage. Recently, I am in a shackle of indecision, please this is a very conventional post, and I will appreciate like situationist, even does with a helpful thought to come in let's share this thought
and learn from your share advice.
It's all about me, and I plead with the general neoxian community to give me the opportunity of reading my post here. This is currently going on life situation.
Now this is the issues, My dream Marriage I have always thought that marriage would end like we started the relationship. All rosily and flowering.
The three years of driving school with another headlamp, my reality love story. I'm in a relationship, my parents are on my neck to take a wife, but I'm not yet settled for this.
I have a fiancé, currently, but I don't have a wife in her. Furthermore, I'm trying my best to make here my brand. She is a graduate, very Intelligent, good-looking and what many people call a public figure.
But honestly, I'm not into here as much, not because I don't love her. I know that everyone has one fault or the other, I have my weakness too. But I'm afraid of letting loose of my weaknesses to her.
She is not my mother's choice, she can't take care of my mother when she's grown old, and I'm the old age child of my parents. Although, mama, want me to pick a wife already.
Remember that marriage is not all about the couple's but considering where you're coming from, does who raised you to your wealth and even hers too matters a lot, but she is this woman who has ego some little arrogance.
Even if I play a hero of tolerance, what about my parents, her family, would it be too early to start all this Head on me?
Now mama is on me, but I haven't opened up to her to give me some time to work on the young lady, but she is insisting I should bring home a woman.
I'm too passionate a man, I think before I take my steps, but in this case, all my mother sees is the young lady. Mama doesn't want to listen to me. She said I'm a young and successful.
That I should start making babes, I'm a graduate, relatively doing well young Nigerian. I know many of us here are either facing or have someone facing the same here.
Even I don't marry her, it will take me time to find another woman, I'm so selective, not because I haven't seen paragons of beauty. I'm well traveled but I need a woman who would marry my mother and me.
And I would as well marry her family, at least for harmony purposes. Of a truth, she doesn't have all these qualities.
I'm still rebranding her, no man or a woman is a brand, yes. We only pick our choice of quality and make it a brand, and I'm trying so much harder, but she isn't reciprocating to changes.
Meanwhile, mama is thinking the hand of clock for me. My business, she barely has little or nor Ideas about it. Even when I have made her my assistant manager.
She ended up misusing the capital invested. If not that, telling my family members, would tire up problems. I feel like telling mama this part of the story, but what if she doesn't believe me. Because she loves this young lady. And mama changes her mind, by supporting me. Won't she commit a suicide?
What she did with the money invested in her, I never bothered asking because I was expecting it. The investment was a taste. All these happening, I grow myself with it in case, I end up marrying her.
Not like my mother's choice because I can walk away, from mama's decision, my concern is what consequence is thereafter.
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