Hi guys, so i've been thinking about how most guys engage in multiple relationships as if it's a job or something profitable L馃樃L. In this post I will be sharing with you why I believe having one woman is ENOUGH
- Outline
Myths
Discipline
Benefits
Fall in love
Conclusion
Myth
- Promiscuous by default: Have you ever asked yourself why you're promiscuous? I guess not! Or maybe you did and something inside you said it's because your dad is/was. Don't deceive yourself promiscuousness has nothinh to do with traits. No doubt they said
variety is the spice of life.
Should this also apply to our sexual life? No, because of it's health dangers. Just apply that statement to food, cars or in general material things. Hiv is real my brother. Condom fit disappoint you last last!!
Discipline
- Be a real man: It takes discipline to be a real man. A real man stays with one woman. A real man embrace the flaws/excesses of his woman. A real man isn't ashamed of his woman. A real man defends his woman. A real man listens to his woman. A real man appreciates his woman. A real man won't hit his woman. A real man isn't ashamed to admit when he is wrong.
- Stop sexualizing women: This simply means stop seeing women as a sex tool. Erase that mentality. Some men have instant erection the minute they see a woman they like LOL ( Potential rapist)... Just kidding. Women complained bitterly about how strange men say all sort of nasty things to them all in the name of admiration. Stop flirting with every woman you see. Respect your old age oga!!
Benefits - Peace of mind : If you value your peace of mind you wont be engaging in multiple relationships in the first place. Are you not tired of passcoding your phone? Why are you so tensed each time she holds your phone? [ Danger 馃檴馃檴馃檴馃檴Lol calm down ]. Be like me bro; I can leave my phone with my girl for a whole day without loosing sleep... NO JOKE. Now that's what I call PEACE OF MIND. Come and enjoy it with me.
Have you ever heard your woman praying for your success? Feels like orgasm!!
When you realise one women is enough, it simply means you are growing up.
The easiest way for a man to become broke is to have more than one woman. [ king solomon will disagree sha!]
Fall in love
Do you believe in love at first sight? I believe love is a gradual process, what people call love at first sight is the soul connection you feel inside of you when you see someone you like for the first time.
It's way easier to stay with one woman if you are in love and not in lust. If you're in love it becomes more difficult to cheat and almost too easy to stay faithful.. FALL IN LOVE. Sometimes love isn't enough, but it's a prerequisite to stay with one woman. You're most likely to get heartbroken in the process because not everybody will know the worth of what you're offerring but at the end it will be worth it. That feeling of being loved back by someone you love is unexplainable.
Conclusion
It's not impossible to stay with one woman. As a matter of fact the percentage of the possibility is higher only if you change your mindset and believes about sex and relationships.
Thanks for reading. Please resteem and upvote. #Newbies #Nigeria #steemchurch #introduceyourself #Promo-steem #Steemittotheworld #Steemnigeria