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Dear who it may concern,*
This message is just for you
a little reminder that you are indeed special too.
When ever you find yourself doing too much to win the heart of a woman just know that she doesn't love you.
Some people might find it hard or harsh but that is just the reality of things,especially in this generation.
Dear women,
If you try to kill yourself to please a man just know you will die in vain.
Dear men,
if you call her more often and she hardly ever call you back and hardly responds, just know that she's not interested in you.
Dear women,
If he keeps giving you excuses whenever you want to see him,
He always gets busy when you want to bond with him,
just know that he's definitely not Interested in you.
Dear Men,
If you buy her gifts and celebrate her birthdays, and also try making all sort of investments and effort on her and she hardly reciprocate your gestures in buying you any gift back or doesn't invest in you, just know that she's using you.
STOP CHASING PEOPLE THAT ARE NOT INTERESTED IN YOU.
This things are not hard to notice but then some people have decided to be soo blind to reason things for themselves that they don't want to pay attention to toxic signs.
Both Men and Women are not hard to get, only if they are interested in being with you,
They just don't love you if they keep doing the opposite, people that don't love you will make lt difficult for you to love.
Stop wasting your time chasing them,
If someone is not interested in you, stop putting unnecessary pressure on yourself on them..
You deserve better than being with a woman that feels nothing about you.
As a lady you deserve better than being with a man who doesn't know your worth.
Learn to walk away even when you see signs of redflags,
One sided commitments,
Lack of empathy and unreciprocated good gestures
for your own peace of mind ,
most times its more peaceful that way for you.
When you finally let go,
Don't feel to sad,
This is part of you being a man.
This is part of you being a fulfilled lady,
Be ready to face whatever challenges and try to be wise & Stay Focused
Love will find you when its time,
Don't settle for just anything as long as you know you are puting more efforts to be better.
