When I first read about the Hive Learners week inception post i.e. Did you ever stand for someone? , i thought this would be like did I ever support someone morally, did I ever convey the message of someone because he couldn’t or did I ever speak on behalf of someone because he /she was being abused but when I read which were like fighting for someone, being a hero of someone's brawl and being a noble goon😂 I was like man these all are real heroes and wrestlers, you can’t even survive if two men pounce upon you. How will you help someone other?
Well don’t mind ….i was just kidding
Life is the name of diversity. Here you will find timids and confidents both. Not all can speak for them. I can feel it because once I used to be like this. I was demure and shy too. It needs confidence and guts to speak for you. I was an introverted type of person as I was a pampered boy of my family but public exposure helped me a lot to diminish that hesitation persisting inside me.
There have been many instances when I took the stand for someone. Yes, I also fought for someone. Yes, I also spoke on behalf of someone. Yes, I also supported someone to stand on his stance.
Let me quote one to you that happened recently.
If you are or have been versity student,you might be aware of seniors suzerainty and their jeering demeanour with juniors. I am going to report same case with you. A student who leaves his home for first time ,totally feels strange in hostel. Reminisces of home haunts him especially in early days and if someone torchers him mentally then there is probability that he may suffer any kind of mental trauma.
A junior boy was living with his senior roomate in hostel. That senior used to think him as his slave. He used to ask him to clean room for him,bring water and food and often used to scold him. That junior was too diffident and wasn’t able to speak for himself. He was enduring all this. He was away from his home and was fearing that if he did or said anything this would do harm to him in anyway.
His condition was miserable and was totally appealing someone to commiserate. I thought to poke my nose. First, I talked to Junior and asked him to eliminate diffidence from him. I tried to encourage him as i could but this didn’t work well.
Next option i had was to directly talk to his senior. He was my batchmate . So i just spoke to him directly. I could have harsh and stentorian tone but this could have worsen the situation. So i used gentle and airly tone and made him feel what he was doing , was totally wrong. I tried to persuade him that his bad demeanour towards his junior ,would will result in something bad.
This too a long while to prevail him as he was of intransident nature but because he was my batch fellow, he listened to me calmly. Although he got furious at first ,thinking that junior asked me to talk about him .But i cleared that it was totally because i pity on that kiddo.
Finally, he gave me words that now he will try to change his behaviour toward him. Although it didn’t get totally well instantly but i am noticing change atleast .
Public exposure made me too vociferous and virago as well. Now the usman who used to be demure , is always ready to burst up on getting stimuli.
Well accept my apologies for submitting post late.
